UK SMOG Wannabes - March

[Babymad]

Babymad, the holiday was amazing. Boys great on flights, in fact slept the whole journey home. Every day was full on though. Breakfast, theme park for about 4 hrs (all ours could manage in that heat), back to the pool for a couple of hrs, back to the room to get showered then out for the evening. Hectic to say the least! But it was awesome and we will definately go back one day to enjoy all the stuff we couldnt do this time. Will get photos onto fb soon but busy nubsessing so god knows when!

Sounds lovely
Obsessing is no fun is it - will you be finding out at 16 weeks? Hugs x

[deaks66]

Not sure but probably... for my sanity!

[deaks66]

Just to really toture myself with nubsessing i found a pic on IG which was confirmed girl and looked just like mine with the protrusion above where pretty much everyone had said the protrusion is the leg... including people who tell me there is no chance that can be the leg on mine!!! Got to stop this obsessing NOW....its killing me!

[2monkeyboys]

Hi ladies,
Beautiful scan pics deaks! So glad all is ok after all the let downs you have had getting here.
Happy birthday Charlie! Hope you have had a good day. How did you get on at your scan hunny? Was looking for an update but may have missed it!
Babymad, glad you got some bits done at home, i hate looking at jobs to be done as they get me down. Sorry you are still having such a tough time. Roll on the sunny weather as I find my boys being outside makes them argue so much less. Big hugs to you xxx
I wrote the hugest post Sunday night but dp came back and I had to delete it all as it was about him!! ANYWAY cut a long story short I reached the end of my tether Easter Sunday I basically told him I'd had enough and I thought it would be best to split up. After him being an enormous prick for the rest of the day, writing shit on fb, unfriending me (haha), demanding my engagement ring back and basically deciding that he was better off without me he then thought SHITTTTTTTT. After reaching the decision I could do it alone, I didn't feel afraid to tell him exactly what I thought, how he makes me mad, sad, frustrated etc, how i cannot talk to him, all that kind of stuff. He did the usual arguing back to start off with but amazingly the shock must have then actually made him see things through my eyes and he realised what a let down he has been. Anyway I now have a totally transformed dp. We are now talking and he has done more around the house and for me these last 2 days than in the last 6months. How long it will last is anyone's guess but the fact that he knows I am prepared to go it alone has turned the tables completely. I would never have said it if I hadn't truly meant it and it certainly wasn't a spur of the moment thing as you all know how long this has been building for. So glad I bit the bullet and confronted it as the silence was so crazy. I'm totally prepared to give him the chance to change things and hope we can regain what we had and be happy again. Very hard weekend but I feel so less stressed now.
Xxxxx

[deaks66]

oh 2monkeys thats brillaint... even though it must have given you a right headache at the time! Well done for sticking up for yourself.... i hope he can maintain what he's doing now! x

[Inglewood]

Hi all, hope ur all well?

anyone heard how LMW got on at scan? x

[maybebabythree]

Well done 2 monkeys! Hope it lasts. My dh has said he's off before and when I said don't come back he said I misheard him and he wasn't going anywhere during one of our many money arguements.

Deaks I think the circled bit at the bottom is the nub. If I was to ever be mad enough to have another it's a cvs at 11 weeks for me ;-)

Inglewood how are you coping? I'm ok just a bit feral as we only leave the house if we have to ATM

[deaks66]

Maybe - Thanks hun, though im afraid you are definately in the minority with your girl guess. Most people are definatrely on the boy bad wagon!. Kinda wish i hadnt posted them as i came out of the scan thinking well thats good, i havent seen anything especially boy like and now i do feel a bit low about it. In fact i only really posted them because i thought someone would be able to see some girl in them thinking they would ignore what i thought was the leg. But so far no tears. Was devastated at this point with ds2 so things are looking better!

What is a cvs? Hope you manage to get out of the house soon! Things are always a bit flat in the holidays unless you have made specific plans so hopefully things might pick up next week when you are back on the school runs etc.

Inglewood, i too am worried about littlemisswilko, i really hope all was ok at the scan

Hi everyone else! X

[pinga]

Hello all... we are back from Sydney and back online! Had a great time... was lovely to spend time with my sister and her little girl. My boys absolutely adored their uncle (they've not spent much time with him before). Had lots of fun going on ferries, seeing the harbour bridge and opera house and we visited the zoo.

My sister isn't into all the pink girly stuff so it makes it a bit easier for me. My boys were so well behaved and charming I was proud of them. And we were staying in a 2 bed flat (so thats 3 kids and 4 adults!!)

CONGRATULATIONS Inglewood!!!! Wonderful wonderful news that they are finally here. I'm amazed you managed to get on here! Just keep telling yourself that you WILL sleep again... ! I remember how crazy-tired my SIL was when her twins arrived!

Deaks - can't tell at all from your piccy. Have you tried posting on a-gender? Tanya on there is amazing at guessing. I hate the nubsessing!!!! Drive you mad!

Wow - there are a few of us in the 30+weeks now... I can't believe I'm finally in the 30s!!!

Charlie - I'm making bubba a blanket too. I'm doing a granny square one - I taught myself how to crochet so I could do it... wanted to do something I hadn't done before. I'm actually making up things for baby's room... I've never done up the baby room before so its a nice thing to do.

Babymad - I know what you mean about imagining the MW handing over a girl instead... but then I tell myself... my sonographer was 99% sure it was a boy... not much room for a girl there!!

Grrrr - have to go to the dentist on Monday - half my tooth broke off on Monday!!! :P I HATE going to the dentist. I have a bit of a phobia about dentists and needles and drills... like a lot of people!

Anyhews - have only half caught up with all the posts... so will catch up properly over the next week.

[chocolate]

Hey everyone, just popping in to say Hi, sorry I havent read much on here lately, have sort of accepted never having a daughter and have been ok with this but coming on here seems to prompt me to start thinking of it all again though.

Hope everyone is good, I have my 20 week scan tomorrow so will be confirming boy for the 3rd time lol