TTC a BOY April Chit Chat Thread

[dloui128]

I have spotting today and my temp plummeted so I guess I am moving on to May now. I think I feel extra deflated both because I got a BFP (even if it was only for one day), and because I had either 4 or 5 psychics say I would fall pregnant in April and deliver a health baby in January!! The other months I felt ok knowing that April was meant to be my month anyway...I know thats kinda dumb and readings are for entertainment purposes...but can't help how you feel.

I'm sorry about the BFN hun, this ttc bulls@!t messes with us sometimes, everything usually happens for a reason so maybe May is your BOY month and your body is holding out for that

Cinss-hopefully you stil get your BFP

[Flava]

POP- im sorry for the bfn... Please don't get any more reading there is no way someone online can tell us when we get pregnant. They can guess but that's it. I had some free readings too and even paid for 2 I guess but really we make that baby , right?
is AF here or not yet? You sure is a bfn?

[Flava]

cinss- sorry about bfn , but no AF yet ! I hope someone get a bfp here! It's so sad our blue group is so small now...I think there are more ladies ttc , because they said hi here in GD but not posting here or more just lurking.
Also there is always very few post in the blue crew grads.
Hope I can hang out here .

[Flava]

hey dloui how do you do?

[Hobbermittens]

Pop, do you think you had a chemical? I'm really, really sorry--I thought for sure this was your month! As far as psychics--I had a ton of readings and only one got the month right. Several told me I would conceive in March, but I got pregnant in January. I know they can't all be right, but it is hard not to get your hopes up.

I know you will get pregnant soon; it WILL happen! Maybe all the stress of swaying and TTC is taking it's toll on you?

[Hobbermittens]

Cinss, don't give up yet! I looked at your chart, your temp is still up, and you don't have AF, so you still have a chance. Some times it takes a while for the BFP to show up!

[Princess of Pink]

Personally I think the readings are BS. I asked all of the ones that predicted April or earlier for an update...only 2 have responded so far...one to say she felt I would conceive in 2012 and gender was the same (yay...so spot on...sometime in the next 8 months!! Even I could be that accurate), the other has changed gender to a girl now and I will either conceive or get a BFP, or due date or give birth in July 2012 or July 2013....so sometime in the next 3-6 months. So if they can't be a little more accurate, how in the hell can they charge for this crap??

Cara is going to read for me again...but she said sometimes it's out by just a little and it could actually be May that I conceive...at least that is a specific month and she was still standing by her first prediction!!

Temp went up today a bit, still spotting and a BFN so must have been a chemical or a faulty test!!! I have decided I won't be temping or testing after O from now on. I will wait for the day before AF and if no spotting that day or sign of AF....I will test the next morning. I don't want to get my hopes up again and I think less obsessing would be better. I will use opk's and temp from after AF ends to 3 days after O and thats it.

[TTC5]

Is this spotting normal for you? Strange your temp has gone back up any chance it could be implantation...

[Princess of Pink]

I would think if it was implantation that I would get a BFP today. Not normal for my temp to go back up at this point in my cycle....spotting was pink yesterday and brown today. If I did O last sunday I would expect AF to start sometime today....

[TTC5]

Really we dont know exactly when O occurs so it is possible that it is implantation hey? I remember this pregnancy when I had cramping right when I suspected implantation it took another good 3 days for a very faint bfp..