TTC a BOY April Chit Chat Thread

[LolaInLove]

Oh, I don't think you should drop the preseed, POP. It has a perfect ph. The only way I think you can do harm with it is if you are using so much while doing the pre-sex applicator thing that you give them an ocean instead of a little river to get up your cervix with, like Flava was saying. I don't even use it that way anymore, we just use it as lube.

[auroara78]

I think preseed is great, PoP, and I woudn't drop it, I'd just maybe not use as much....PoP I also think the diet idea of trying to lose weight and be eat really healthy is a good boost to fertility and will still sway boy! In my honest opinion, it's not just fat in and out of itself that sways, but I'd say healthy unsaturaed mono fats sway boy. It's just my

Bec, it's totally up to you of course, but if offered the chance to find out what gender the baby was, I would def. find out, for the sake of total closure, and a chance to have an identity attached to the baby. But like I said, you gotta do what's right for ya'll.

TTC5, I'm thinking about you and your baby and hope everything will go alright....

[LolaInLove]

Oh yes, Bec, I meant to comment on the genetic testing......I think you should go with what works best for you and your personality as far as coping goes. I am the kind of person who would find out but then fixate on that and let it make me sad forever, so I know now that I am best off not knowing things like that.....I have to put my 13 year old dog to sleep soon and I want to be with her, but I know I'll see her lifeless face in my mind for the rest of my life and sort of hate that I have that image, but I'm gonna do it. I think it is just up to you. The envelope suggestion is not a bad one at all, though. Then you could find out someday if you really felt compelled to know.

[Princess of Pink]

I have used the preseed every attempt so far, maybe too much? How much did you ladies who got BFP's actually use? I may decrease the amount this attempt!

[Flava]

POP- we did not used the preseed applicator at all this time. DH just put some on his fingertip and that's it. I would guess it was like a half to max 1g in the applicator?
I was thinking if we put in to much it would just wash everything out?
It say on the preseed box to use 3g ! That is way to much .I remember before we used once 2g and i was just swimming in preseed.

[Zivic-Bubac]

Z- did you asked the gender at the 20 week u/s or not?

Nope, I'll have a nervous breakdown if I hear another 'girl' confirmation. 2 times was just about 2 much lol!

[dloui128]

I have used the preseed every attempt so far, maybe too much? How much did you ladies who got BFP's actually use? I may decrease the amount this attempt!

I used 1-2g's

[Cinss]

I was putting the preseed on DPs part like a thin layer all over so it would just glide in, we DTD 5 days in a row so i really needed the extra lubrication. But then i would wake up in the middle of the night with a big gush of liquid coming out, totally gross i know. Thats why i have been thinking about the TBM, i am just worried that it will take the the love out of the love making if you know what i mean.

Bec it is such a hard decision for you to find out the sex or not, i don't think i would, i always wonder what the sex would have been of my first pregnancy that i lost. I think if i knew the answer it would make me feel the loss more, and i would relive the pain. I can just picture my little bean as an angel instead.

[TTC5]

Whose starting the MAy thread

[TTC5]

Oh, I don't think you should drop the preseed, POP. It has a perfect ph. The only way I think you can do harm with it is if you are using so much while doing the pre-sex applicator thing that you give them an ocean instead of a little river to get up your cervix with, like Flava was saying. I don't even use it that way anymore, we just use it as lube.

Keep the pre seed, I agree. You only need like 1-2 mls MAX
Drop the baking soda crap for sure though!