Ladies due in Sept/Oct/Nov 2012, gather here!

[pinkin2011]

Thanks so much butterfly and Hope if I didnt have all you girls and this site I would be bugged!..

[Butterfly Spirit]

Thanks so much butterfly and Hope if I didnt have all you girls and this site I would be bugged!..

We will help you through this, you don't need some nasty drug that could cause problems for you and your sweet baby! I just can't imagine.

[pinkin2011]

D/h said to me that us 2 will find out and just make out that we dont even know.. And say to them before we go for our scan NO WE ARE NOT FINDING OUT! and just say we didnt.. Will be harder for d/h then me to keep it to myself but he should be ok its just he gets this smile when he lies and he cant help doing it

[pinkin2011]

TBH I was worried to take it myself thats why its taken me 2 weeks to have my first tablet.. You are right I will have to get through it .. Do you think I could just tell my ob that I am taking them? She may be upset with me if she knows I am not?

[Butterfly Spirit]

D/h said to me that us 2 will find out and just make out that we dont even know.. And say to them before we go for our scan NO WE ARE NOT FINDING OUT! and just say we didnt.. Will be harder for d/h then me to keep it to myself but he should be ok its just he gets this smile when he lies and he cant help doing it

You could find out and have a gender party if it's a girl! That's what me and DH are going to do!

[pinkin2011]

yeah thats a good idea!!!
How are you going anyway?? Did you have a scan?

[purplepoet20]

I've decided to have 2 gender parties if it is a girl! Since the ultrasound is 2 days before DH birthday I will have a hard time hiding it for a whole week, so I am going to buy strawberry cake mix and white icing for his birthday cake. And then we will make either a cake or a very girly picture frame for my MIL for Mother's Day.

I will post both videos and picture for everyone!

[Hobbermittens]

I think its more so the over a year of planning and searching and trying to get everything right! MONEY I SPENT on opks rephresh IONS! food and ALL my time into my sway and it hasnt even worked anyway! I know its not 100 percent but I should of known this would happen to me It only would happen to me I knew it wouldnt work out.. Why did I even bother. I even was so sick from not eating the month before i got my bfp it was the pits.. I should of just dtd without even doing anything else! would of been the same outcome..
Sorry to be all sad But It has just brought me crashing down , I should be happy everything is healthy.. I hope NO ONE has to feel the way I am right now I so wish everyone gets what they wish for!

I know how you feel, exactly! I think about all the crazy stuff I did for my sway, and I wonder if I would have gotten a boy easier by just DTD a bunch around O and that's it? I mean that's how I got my son; we did nothing special to have him.

Neither of us know for sure we have an opposite, so we still have a little hope, right?? Fingers crossed we both get our dream babies.

[pinkin2011]

Yeah But I feel my 12 week scan says different.. If it looked girly then I would be a bit happier! Like if there was a girl nub! What did your 12 week scan look like?? Could you see anything?

[Butterfly Spirit]

yeah thats a good idea!!!
How are you going anyway?? Did you have a scan?

I had a scan done at the ER on Sun night, there are pics on my Vitex Time thread or ultrasound thread.
I have an appt with a H/R clinic next week for a blood screen and perhaps ultrasound. I say perhaps because I don't know if I want one again. They PUSH too hard!
I was so interested by what I saw in my scan, because I videotaped it and later took a pic, I called the on call doc yesterday and he seemed interested so..
So I will keep everyone updated for sure!

Oh, and we find out the gender if we go at 15 weeks (NEVER have done it before lol)
July 5, we will have DS#1 birthday in July and we were thinking we would not tell anyone and bring a gender cake and stuff along with it.. maybe. That would be easier since DH has a big family.