ColdWater- tricky potty shot! Please help

**Flava** · May 2nd, 2012, 11:09 AM

It's a shame that you can only use PM if you are a gold member on IG! So you have to pay just to PM a friend...?I think everyone has a right to privacy and if you register on a site you should have access to PM other members. Hope that never happen here.

**our3sons** · May 2nd, 2012, 11:30 AM

yeah it is a shame. AND gold doesn't even work. It will take your money, but you won't get the upgrade. That's what I understand anyway. IG is falling apart. The page owner has pretty much "washed her hands" of the page..

**atomic sagebrush** · May 2nd, 2012, 12:37 PM

In IG's defense, the reason they had to make PM for gold members only was because there were horrible trolls on there who were PM'ing people who had lost children and saying the most disgusting things that you can even imagine.

Now as for why they made PM's gold and then took people's money and did not give them their Gold Memberships, I have no idea and it's awful that they did that. But the original reason PM's went Gold was because of the trolls.

**Flava** · May 2nd, 2012, 12:44 PM

Then you should have options to set from who you accept PM's I guess and not making members pay for it...

**Foxy** · May 2nd, 2012, 02:50 PM

I can't confirm from this pic. 14 weeks can be tricky. Hope you get a better look at your next scan! GL!

**our3sons** · May 2nd, 2012, 03:53 PM

thanks foxy!

**zanacal** · May 2nd, 2012, 04:07 PM

our3sons - did you see ColdWater's reply at the bottom of page 1? I suspect you were posting at the same time!

**our3sons** · May 2nd, 2012, 06:23 PM

Originally Posted by zanacal

our3sons - did you see ColdWater's reply at the bottom of page 1? I suspect you were posting at the same time!

Nope, I didn't see it til you pointed it out. Thanks though!! Darn. wishful thinking I guess. I thought those 3 lines were pretty clear and the bright circle like area behind it = bum.. Cuz I have seen a lot of gender shots at this stage with the same bright circle area behind the gender. ahhh well... it is what it is. Gotta wait I guess.

**atomic sagebrush** · May 3rd, 2012, 12:04 AM

Originally Posted by Flava

Then you should have options to set from who you accept PM's I guess and not making members pay for it...

But then new members couldn't send PM's to people who didn't know them...and people easily could end up accepting PM's from trolls unknowingly. It was just a tough situation all around and seriously, people can't even imagine the content of some of those PM's. They were hideous. The solution itself wasn't bad, it was what came afterwards that was totally ridiculous, with Gold not working and people's money getting ripped off. Not to mention that the trolls were not being banned as soon as they popped up. Only Maureen could ban trolls and when she'd go missing for weeks at a time, it was pretty hard for the FL's to deal with.

What I wished is that they'd made a minimum number of posts for sending PM's or something like that, and set it a little bit on the higher side.

**Flava** · May 3rd, 2012, 07:44 AM

"What I wished is that they'd made a minimum number of posts for sending PM's or something like that, and set it a little bit on the higher side. "
yes this is also a good idea. I was on IG for a long time but never paid for gold.
3sons sorry for posting all this on your thread !

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