ColdWater, can you take a look please?

[3 men & a little lady]

Thanks- again, I don't care having to paint over a wall, what's the big deal with that?

No big deal hun......I would just find it hard that's all. so tight for you.

[nuthinbutpink]

You went to a private scan place at 13 weeks? And your OB came with? And no pics?

[JoannaK]

It was part of my obstetricians practice- a tech was there, but it was my obstetrician's equipment and office

[JoannaK]

Should also note here too that my obstetrician is a fully trained sonographer as well

[nuthinbutpink]

I guess I don't understand what you went for...the video is the NT scan, correct? And then you went for a 13 week private scan? I assume you paid for that scan...was it for gender? Why wouldn't they give you picture if you paid for a private scan given they did a video before...I am sorry for the peppering of questions, I am just curious. We don't ever get videos where I live at the specialist or the OB so I think that it is great that some still provide it, I just don't understand going back 4 days later I guess.

[JoannaK]

Well I was initially just going for a regular check up with my OB- because yes the video is the proper NT scan, but then I asked him whether he could do a scan because I was sure it was a boy, and I just wanted him to confirm it. That's when I found out otherwise. And he doesn't usually give you photos, unless you ask him- and I was happy not to get photos (until 20 weeks) because I was happy and confident (at that time) that it was a girl. Sadly, after seeing all the doubts from everyone, I know I should have gotten photos- just would have thought people would have been happy for me and left it at that.

[JoannaK]

Joannak stick with here and the support you get here, don't bother with IG. I honestly would not post there if my life depended on it.How many weeks are you?When do you have your next scan?

Thankyou so much for your kind words, Irishmom, you have no idea how much it helps to feel like I'm not alone

[pinkin2011]

Hi Joannak , For some reason I thought you were like 20 weeks along!!!! I am due the 3rd or 4th of nov so we are not really that far apart! I am now woundering if i should ask my ob to look down there or not... Maybe just wait it out? 15 weeks 2 days could be tricky hey?
I hope you are feeling ok.... Can you book in for another scan at 16 weeks?

[JoannaK]

Hi Joannak , For some reason I thought you were like 20 weeks along!!!! I am due the 3rd or 4th of nov so we are not really that far apart! I am now woundering if i should ask my ob to look down there or not... Maybe just wait it out? 15 weeks 2 days could be tricky hey?
I hope you are feeling ok.... Can you book in for another scan at 16 weeks?

NO MORE SCANS!!!! I'm not having ANY more scans until 20 weeks- and yeah we are really close apart- I think you're a few days ahead of me though. My advice is this: ask your specialist on monday for a shot between the legs, ask HER opinion, and when you get it, DON'T TELL ANYONE ON THE INTERNET! lol. UNLESS you have proof that you KNOW noone is going to argue with you about it... so unless you get that perfect, clear shot, take your doctors opinion, they won't give out their opinion unless they know they're sure- they're held a LOT more accountable than anonymous people on the internet!! It's easy to make a quick quess on the net, whether it be the right or wrong guess, than a specialist giving you the wrong guess, I would take our opinion with a real grain of salt, and I would put a lot more trust in your doctor's opinion

[pinkin2011]

Oh I want a girl so bad, I didnt get much sleep last night just thinking and thinking and If my ob tells me my baby is a Boy I will be fine.. I am Just finding it tough ( as alot of us do) waiting to find out I just fell I NEED TO KNOW so I can move on with my life and my family and this pregnancy. I feel like I AM on hold right now , Not as in my daily duties or a mother or wife but just in my mind I am stuck... When or if I find out Boy yes I will be upset for that day but I know I will be ok he is mine and d/h baby we made him so he will be just gorgeous! Dont get me wrong oh how fantastic it would be to hear its a Girl but honestly I dont feel I am going to hear those words...
Getting off that tho I wounder if I had a 12 week dvd of my ultrasound would it be all boy... As I do have my top pic that you said looks like one of yours.. hmm I wish I had a clear nub... If you only had your pics on not the dvd would you of gotten all boy guesses based on your pics?