♥ April 2011 Blue Cheer Squad Thread ♥

[skrimpy]

Yep AF is here, Shattered!!!!!

((hugs)) FX for you next month! For me adding in healthy fats and cod liver oil lengthened my short luteal phases Also slept w/ the room totally dark after O til the next month's O.

[WMB]

hey I want to say good luck to all! Im not ttc yet...maybe in October or January...not sure...DH don't want to have another baby :-(

[atomic sagebrush]

You and I are in the same boat WMB! DH said yes then he changed his mind so I'm just hoping he changes it back again! :/

[begonia]

Oh Chunksta I'm sorry this wasn't your month :-( FX this month gets you that blue bfp!

Lola I am thrilled to see you're 5 weeks in and will keep FX this one sticks for you! Did you decide if you'll find out at u/s or wait for a surprise? I fell off the planet due to our selling our house and trying to find temp digs while we reno a new one. It's crazy time consuming which is why we are putting off TTC til fall ... maybe ;-) We thought about it this month but opted out, but might next month since I should O on our anniversary and how fun would that be?!?! Not that we'd ever tell that baby. How mortifying for that child, LOL! Anyhow, I REALLY felt so much more into the TW (thanks for that blog on IG, Atomic!) approach as it was, so this site is MUCH more my style. But I miss the CBBC!

Atomic and WMB I don't know how old your youngest ones are but my DH is *never* up for another until ours are nearly 2! He just likes the 1-2 age the best, so once they start rolling out of that stage he misses it and becomes more receptive to another. FX your fellas come around!

[LolaInLove]

Hey, thanks, begonia! I will find out, DH really wants to. If he didn't, I may be more inclined to wait until birth because I am terrified of hearing girl at an u/s again and being upset about it. I want to enjoy this last pregnancy of mine. Anyway, I am currently trying to find ways to trick my mind into a nice peaceful place about it all. And to tell you the truth, it is a bit more emotionally difficult for me too because my ex and his wife will be probably pg any day now (she is younger than me, of course) and if they have a boy and I have a girl, I will absolutely DIE. I truly despise that man and if he gets a son and I don't, I think I will really lose it. So, that is kinda stupid but it is the reality of my life.

Begonia, so glad to hear you are going to start ttc again. I miss the CBBC also, but a few of us are still on the FB group and some here, too.

[skrimpy]

Atomic and WMB I hope your hubbies change their minds Somebody said somewhere that they get their DH's to say "yes" to more babies by only letting them be around the kiddos where they are happy and sweeties... Mama did all the hard work I think it's a bit easier to do with babies than with the older ones!

begonia congrats on getting your house sold... I think an anniversary conception would be really sweet and of course you don't need to tell the bub Hopefully you feel all ready to go when you do TTC, and get a sweet little blue package. I agree that the TW makes so much sense for blue

Lola I was just where you are - trying to trick myself into being peaceful and content with the wait to find out. I must say it didn't really work well for me so no advice But I know how you feel about the ex and his wife! It grates on me to think about certain relatives getting a boy this year... it would burn so much more to think that the ex got what you wanted... When I had DD1 her bio-dad's ex (who he had broken up with just before he got me knocked up ... yeah, I was a smart cookie) had a baby boy at the same time. It really burned for awhile b/c I'd wanted a boy and here I'd see her dancing around showing off her son. Luckily I fell head over heels for DD and that took a lot of the sting out. But it still seemed really unfair.

I have FX that your little bean in there is a sweet blue bean

As for me I am filling my freezer this weekend by cooking some entrees in advance for this little pink bean and really hoping that the GD will stop being as hard as it has been the past few days. So rooting for you ladies that your blue dreams come true

[3Pink1Blue]

And to tell you the truth, it is a bit more emotionally difficult for me too because my ex and his wife will be probably pg any day now (she is younger than me, of course) and if they have a boy and I have a girl, I will absolutely DIE. I truly despise that man and if he gets a son and I don't, I think I will really lose it. So, that is kinda stupid but it is the reality of my life.

Omg I so get this, when my loser bil knocked up his bitchier then bitchy gf I was terrified it would be a boy therefore proving there is no justice in this world. Luckily they had a girl and I have restored faith lol

[atomic sagebrush]

Thanks Begonia! I am OLD so it's kinda now or never, I think that's a big part of why I get so panicky about it. I jsut have to get to a place of peace and let whatever will be, be! I have to live vicariously through all of you guys!

Lola and skrimpy, (((hugs))). This all sucks, I wish we could just order our babies up but then again, I wouldn't have ordered my last two little guys so maybe that's all for the best!

[begonia]

Atomic ITA that while sometimes I wish I could just "choose" a son I really, really am glad it isn't my decision or I never would have had either of my daughters. And that is why I have no interest in going high tech.... my ladies are hands down the best things in my life! In fact part of me wonders sometimes if I really DO want a boy now because I just love my girls to bits. In all honestly I think a big part of it for me is wanting to "prove" to all the people who smirk and say I'll have a 3rd girl that they are wrong. Not that I'm competitive or type A or anything like that ;-)

Lola the whole Ex thing just sucks! I wish he would move far, far away. FX he gets triplet girls :-) I know that would burn for him given his reaction to your 2 girl pregnancies. I think you're sweet to honor DH's request to find out, since this is his first. How fun for him. That has to make it really fun for you, too! FX it is a blue bundle and there isn't any reason to even worry about gd.

Oh Skrimpy I hope the GD eases up love! It's just such a tough thing to deal with. Do you have any friends IRL who identify? You're so smart to be cooking in advance!

3Pink your post made me LOL :-) Think I saw it is your bday! Happy happy birthday!

[3Pink1Blue]

Thanks Begonia, glad I could give you a chuckle