Ladies due in Sept/Oct/Nov 2012, gather here!

[Mochagirl]

Oh, begonia - that's so sad too! We're silly, though, aren't we? Our kids have the attention span of a flea and probably forget about this stuff immediately after it happens, and for some reason we keep brooding over these things and drive ourselves crazy. Mommy guilt is the worst!

[Hobbermittens]

Mocha, your poor DS! I bet he is over it now, though. And it isn't like you never came back, you were just late. Try not to beat yourself up over it.

begonia, if your DD doesn't know, then don't ever tell her! You got off easy on that one!

[purplepoet20]

Mocha... poor little man who knows what he was thinking! DS1 wants to go to school so bad... he is the one who will miss dada and grandma. DS2 is such a mamas boy I know he would never let me go when he realizes I am dropping him off at school. Being late would be the end of the world to him. DS2 currently misses me if I am out of sight for a slit second.

[Waiting4Daisy]

Oh Mocha, I hate stuff like that too. I remember I went to get DS1 at nursery (he is 4, almost 5) and I went out to the buggy to check on DS2 and he must have lost me in the crowd of parents. I panicked when I couldn't see him and ran back but by that time he was crying hysterically and another mum was looking for me. It was only for a minute but he is SUCH a sensitive soul that I felt so awful and he still talks about it now because it gave him such a fright.

[Mochagirl]

Thanks, ladies. My twins were actually much clingier than ds3, who's a very independeng little guy. Maybe that's why this has affected me so much - it takes a lot for him to cry.

You just reminded me, though, of a time one of my older boys got lost at a giant indoor playground. I was sitting in the toddler area with ds3, who was just a baby at the time, and my twins got separated then one got turned around and couldn't figure out how to get back to me. He was 2 floors up screaming out of one of the mesh windows overlooking the lobby screaming for Mommy, but since I was in a different area I couldn't hear him. When I realized I hadn't seen him crawl by in a while I went looking for him and found a crowd gathered in the lobby below him trying to calm him down. I felt terrible, yet I'm sure he doesn't remember it at all now.

[fivebabies]

Oh Mocha...that breaks my heart! I hate that feeling. I am super sensitive to my kids that way too. Always the first mom to pick them up.

Could I get any of you lovely ladies to peek at my new nub shots I got today? Pretty please?

http://genderdreaming.com/forum/ultr...ots-12w4d.html

[TTC5]

Thanks Everyone you lovely kind words they me alot to me. Im actually feeling ok with it at the moment. I have got a little sad when i have seen a few baby girls but i think im doing ok.

Well i have totally injured my back yesterday and i can no longer walk, im in so much pain I have done a little bit of heavy lifting that i shouldn't have done, but yesterday after picking my boys up from school i went to sainsburys doing a little bit of shopping. My back was aching pushing the trolley but when i went to fasten the seatbelt for DS1 i twisted and got an almighty massive pain in my back, i screamed. Since, i have been in agony when lying, sitting and walking.
Been to dr's this morning and now on co-codamol as paracetamol not doing anything but im still in agony.

Im sure the doctors dont understand im a mummy to 3 boys and tomorrow DH is back at work and i need to be back doing everything, i really dont think thats going to happen tho i really dont know what im going to do. I keep crying im in so much pain

Oh no!!!

[TTC5]

Well i have just phoned the out of hours doctors team as i cant handle the pain any longer, the pain killers are doing nothing. Even tho the doctor i saw today said she could give me a higher dose of pain killer if needed he said he wont as its not safe in pregnancy and there is nothing else he can give me. I just have to put up with it

Im on 15/500mg Co-codamol, does anyone know if i can do/take anything else? Im at my witts end, im in pain lying, sitting, standing and walking (if you can call it walking)!

Codeine based is safe. Can you get Mersydol? That is safe also.

[TTC5]

Oh Mocha...that breaks my heart! I hate that feeling. I am super sensitive to my kids that way too. Always the first mom to pick them up.

Could I get any of you lovely ladies to peek at my new nub shots I got today? Pretty please?

http://genderdreaming.com/forum/ultr...ots-12w4d.html

I guessed!!!

[pinkin2011]

TTC5.. Do you think you are carrying any different to your girls?? Did you get very big with your girls?