12 week 1 day scan.. Finding gender out on Friday.. More guesses please!!

[Myloves]

My ds Will be 4 in sept ... He is soooo desperate for a sister!! If i say to him that bubs could be a boy he starts to cry and says no its a girl!!! SO with my 20 week scan I am thinking its not such a good idea for d/h and I to take him along incase he does hear boy I dont want him to be upset at the ultrasound Id rather be able to tell him at home and warm him up to the idea.. I know he is not 4 yet but he is very switched on. I should be able to get him used to the idea before he is born

Aw, poor hunny. He'll come around (IF you do have a boy) kids change their minds so easily.
My Ds1 did not want a brother when I pregnant with ds2 - he kept saying 'baby sister' everytime I even mentioned he might get a brother, but now at 8yrs he and ds2 (who is 5 yrs old) are best of friends.

[pinkin2011]

Yeah he will be fine! It just wont be the best idea to take him to the scan i think!

[sweetsister]

I would say a lean to boy ,,,but i think youll get a girl and surprise us all!!It really is a 50/50 with yours..Cant wait to see what your having

[pinkin2011]

Thanks for taking a look sweetsister!

[sweetsister]

Aw ,yur welcome,i do feel bad saying a lean to boy,i see how much you want a girl,it really can be,i just cant lie,better to be prepared,and then surprised if it happens.I just want to say that my second boy is my cuddly love bug ,he is such a little clown and makes me laugh out loud every day with his sense of humor he is everything i could ask for if i ordered him from god from a recipe book,and he is most of all ,the best friend to my eldest and they are the cutest little best buddies already,i wouldnt trade him for any otherand by the way i thought he was a girl,so you might be off to a good start thinking she is a he

[pinkin2011]

Dont feel bad it very well may be a boy! Doesnt bother me getting boy guesses because it is what it is! Yeah 2 boys would be nice either way would be nice ! So I am at a win win its just id love to have a girl! BUT we cant choose hey! I wish I could of had a clear nub shot tho so people could just guess boy and then I would know! Its really hard for me atm because It does look like its going to be a boy but I still have a slight chance it being a girl Which in my eyes is worse because id rather just know its a boy! Does that make sense?

[pinkin2011]

More guesses please!! I find out gender on friday!

[toomanyboys]

i first thought it could be girl....and stil think it is 50/50 as there is definately fork...and i found that with girls its sticks out more horizontaly behind the thigh and tends to be a girl whereas with the boy it either hidden and you cannot see it casue it is covered with the leg or if it seen it is more up rather than flat. your first pic is more girly to me and the nub in the second pic although angled looks like it is parallel to the spine.....i think it is very 50/50 and i know how annoying this is cause i have a 50/50 feeling about mine too....gotta wait 2 weeks before i get a more clearer idea of course as mine was only 10.4 weeks....

i really hope you come back to surprise us....

[pinkin2011]

Oh I hope I can suprise you all and myself!!

[TTC5]

Not much longer to go!!