EXPERTS (hee hee) if you are on the older side and TTC a Girl would you......

[Aprincessforme]

That's so awesome ladies!! Looks like we all have the same hubbies!! I approached my dh via text msg....I told him something dirty that I was gonna do when he got home....just because he is so not into this anymore!!! Then after I did what needed to be done.....I told him I was gonna make him happy everyday to release the stresses from running a business!! Well ,he didn't believe me of course and knew something was up my sleeve!! But, I didn't tell him the whole gist of it!!! I said that he needed to be relaxed for this and I wanted him to be as relaxed as possible. I threw a little more BS because if he is under pressure, well then its going all to HELL when O comes. I have to do this very smart this time and be very seductive and kinda dirty so he's onboard here!! I do give him cranberry because its one pill but when I was giving him more...he was like what is all this sh^%!!! So, I backed off and thought cranberry is good!! So, no lube then??? We do the spit thing also!! Hee hee...gross I know!! So, I should Not do that or is that ok to still do. I have no cm the last few months at all. Just creamy, so it makes me think the diet is working. I do drink a lot of CL during that time too!!! Should I buy KY Jelly Siilk E or just stick with the good ole spit????? I am doing 2 attempts so maybe spit is ok.

Just want to add: You ladies are so lucky!!!

[dramabird]

I say spit!! It's natural, readily available and won't interrupt the flow of things while you go get a tube of this or that. And as several of us can attest, it doesn't supress fertility tooooo much and prevent pg altogether. Yep, I guess I'm Team Spit.

[atomic sagebrush]

Heck, my husband barely even knew we were TTC!

[atomic sagebrush]

if you need lube, you can use saliva or KY, or Sylk, or whatever works for you EXCEPT Preseed or Conceive Plus or egg white.