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[Mrs_P]

I find it so hard to think people would be spreading such horrible rumours!!!

Any loving mother would NEVER put herself before her children or put them at risk. Not only do you come across on this site as being just that (it is clear to see the affection show when chatting about them) but you also go out of your way and give up your time to help other women. How could anyone so generous and caring like that ever do anything to jepardise her kids.

Both your online family and your real one are very lucky to have you and you shouldn't have to justift yourself against vicious rumours. I read your sway and none of these things entered my mind other than poor woman she's had a rough few months and she's still standing just goes to show how strong a mother can be for her family. People should have nothing other than admiration from you.

GRRRRRRR sorry about the rant just feeling REALLY cross on your behalf

[atomic sagebrush]

Thanks you guys, you are all so sweet and kind.

[zanacal]

Atomic, I'm lost for words. I was only thinking this evening what an amazing family you have for how you're dealing with the crap situation you're all facing at the moment. Where the heck are these rumours being spread and what is wrong with these people? I hate being reminded that there are such mean, unpleasant people in this world.

[atomic sagebrush]

Oh, it's all done behind the scenes. I'm actually kind of glad to know so I can deal with it openly rather than just having people believe things without asking my side. nobody needs to worry about it, it's just one of those things that happen sometimes.

[zanacal]

It doesn't make sense anyway. Your pregnancy is only one pregnancy and you having a girl doesn't prove or disprove anything if there aren't other successes alongside it from others who have followed your advice - and there are plenty!

[skrimpy]

Oh geez, why do people even bother with horrible rumors? Are we all still in high school ladies? All this drama lately makes me wonder.

Atomic I am so thankful for all you have done AND that you are a wonderful, loving mother who has obviously done a good job for and with her kids.

Don't let the jealous ones get to you - and please try and enjoy the rest of your pregnancy and definitely enjoy your healthy baby girl!

[Mochagirl]

I'm in shock. I'm sorry you're having to deal with this slander. I genuinely believe I would not have my daughter if it weren't for you. I've watched you give and give, never making anyone feel like they're asking a stupid question, and answering everyone promptly despite all the crap you've been going through in your own life. I also know that those amazing kids of yours are the center of your life - of course they are! That part of the rumour I'd just about the most ridiculous thing I've ever heard!

How pathetic that there are people who have nothing better to do than make up rumours about good people.

[alreadyneedivf]

ha i can't believe anyone would question the queen of swaying--what are they nuts? I barely look at swaying (since I need IVF anyway) but I am amazed how much you know and how many people you help get their DG (or is it GD?)--I don't even know what those stand for but I think you should write a book with all your knowledge, and I'd recommend it to everyone I know looking to sway

[coocoobananas]

I'm sorry you have to have this happen. It sucks, is undeserved and plain not cool!!!

[elle82]

OMG that's awful!! I hate crap like that. I'm new here and you've already helped me so much. You are a truly wonderful person Atomic xxx