Bfp and not over the moon!

[Tiffani3]

Awww....don't beat yourself up about it at all! Sometimes all this swaying and stressing can raise testosterone so you are probably better off than any of us!!! Fingers crossed you have your little dream bean in there!

Thank you for your support xxxxx

[luckylass]

Tiffani3 I can totally sympathise with how you are feeling at the moment but before I go on I just wanted to congratulate you on your bfp.

I found out I was pregnant last week and felt exactly the same. I had never heard of swaying until I came across it after my miscarriage in mid-April and had never heard of the diet until a month ago. I was only at it a week or two before ovulating and had only lost 7lbs so the first thing I panicked over was that I had done a terrible sway and the more I think about it the more stuff I think I have done wrong. But as Atomic said to me there is not enough evidence one way or the other to know for sure and several woman who never sway get both genders anyway. I keep trying to remind myself that the best of sways can produce opposite gender than desired and that the worst sways produce the desired gender. After all as perfect as a sway is, it is not a guarantee. So fingers crossed we both get our little bundles of pink next year and that above all we have healthy happy little ones.


Edited to add I conceived:

Ds1 in late March/early April (girl time of year) while I was very underweight in a boy moon sign with strong lean boy biorhythms.

Ds2 in early October (boy time of year) while I was very overweight in a girl moon sign with strong lean girl biorhythms.

Of my group of six friends 4 of us got pregnant within a couple of months of each other and the others shortly after. The two of us that were very slim at the time had boys and the other 4 had girls.

What I am badly trying to say is that swaying is different for everyone and you may have done loads for what you need to do.

[fish2012]

oh i'm very jealous of you bfp congrats!

I have wondered this thou i read the heather chestman book and she says better to not be pregenat than pregnant with wrong sex bean.....it keeps coming back to me it's like handing in your exam paper the dead is done and now you have to wait for the reuslts and possiably deal with it not being your dream come true.......agh ttc and swaying awful really why is there no magic pill......atomic i hope you find it one day if anyone can its you

[Tiffani3]

Thank you for all your support it's so lovely to have people to talk to about all this and not feel like I'm being judged

I do feel better today, maybe it was just the shock and have told my self that I will be blessed no matter what outcome.

Luckylass congratulations on your BFP when are you due? X

Fish good luck I hope you get your BFP and dream come true GL X