My VITEX Journey

[Butterfly Spirit]

My sis-in-law that has caused so much drama in my life that I have to block her from texting me, contacted my husband via text Thurs morning and said she wanted to do something VERY special for me but needs his help to do it. She wants to make an appt for a 15 weeks gender reveal scan at Fetal Fotos and pay for the session as well and afterwards there would be a pink and blue present waiting for me for whatever gender of baby I am carrying. My guess is I leave behind the other present and that would be her sneaky way of finding out what it is..and then she would spread the news against my will or just have the satisfaction of finding out first when I want absolutely nobody to know before I'm ready to tell. It's SAD..I wish I could trust her and let her pay for an amazing amazing gift. But I've trusted her too many times when I've taken her back as a friend and soon after that I am just stabbed in the back. I was even half tempted until I really thought about it. This is HUGE to me. I am planning on a gender party if we see PINK.. this is my last baby..and I am SO excited and can't stop fantasizing about it! Even just a small reveal to my mom I am SO looking forward to! I can't let there be a chance of her ruining that. I seem to be the only one that cares about finding out before 20 weeks..and it's sad. My mom doesn't care, my DH doesn't care. I have a little birthday money I've been saving so MAYBE I can convince DH to pay for some of it and go with to get a small scan and a few pics..it's better than nothing.

I also told my mom and my mom said that I don't want to be indebted to her in any way, and she just has a feeling that she is up to something.

[Butterfly Spirit]

And my last vent is being mad at myself.. I had a REALLY good reason for a 12-13 week scan but did I think of it in time to tell my doc? NO! I have major concerns over barely being able to eat or drink because I'm sick 24/7..throwing up not as much but nauseous constantly.. and then breastfeeding. What the hell is my baby getting? I didn't come off any of my supplements because as much as I HATE taking them, I know my baby needs them. So I had a good reason to see my baby and if they are growing and healthy... GRRRRRR! Well.. I guess the mini scan on Monday will reveal that.. :'(

[NCBeachyGrl]

Good luck on Monday! I can't wait to see what pics you come back with!

[fresas]

Butterfly, are you able to at least take Flintstones or another chewable multivitamin? Prenatals are the worst for nausea, but when I had terrible MS (literally throwing up anything), I could stomach a chewable MVI. I'm sorry the MS is so bad for you. I hope you feel better soon.

[Butterfly Spirit]

Butterfly, are you able to at least take Flintstones or another chewable multivitamin? Prenatals are the worst for nausea, but when I had terrible MS (literally throwing up anything), I could stomach a chewable MVI. I'm sorry the MS is so bad for you. I hope you feel better soon.

I have taken those with every pregnancy. The sour Flintstones gummy ones.
Thanks for the help!

[auroara78]

butterfly, did you have your mini scan yesterday?

and I'm sorry to hear that about your SIL...I too would not trust her!! It would be so nice if it was no strings attached...and I agree with freas, about the vitamins...glad you're taking flinstones, I can't ever take prenatals because early in preg they make me too sick and later they stop me up too badly, but the flintstones work OK with my body.

[Mochagirl]

Yes, I'm wondering about the scan too, butterfly!

[Butterfly Spirit]

Sorry I didn't update ladies. I decided to cancel and hold off until next week or... whenever. LOL The later the better.. and I'll try to convince my doc to do a crotch shot.

[Babyy Love]

Did Atomic have her babygirl yet?

[Mochagirl]

Yep! There's a whole thread devoted to it:

http://genderdreaming.com/forum/preg...tml#post233922