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  1. September 9th, 2012, 07:35 PM #1
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    We lost our precious baby

    We had our first miscarriage on the weekend.

    On Friday night at work I had a small amount of spotting (only on wiping though) and a few cramps I was exactly 9 weeks. I wasn't too concerned, just kept thinking a lot of people get this and usually everything is perfectly fine. Then it continued Sat morning so decided to take myself to the hospital to get checked out.

    After a long wait they did a quick scan and found that baby was measuring only 6w4d and he couldn't detect a heart beat. So either baby stopped growing then or my dates were wrong. I KNEW my dates weren't wrong as I had swayed, was tracking ovulation etc but they wanted me to go for a proper u/s on the Sunday so i did and they couldn't see the baby at all but lots of pockets of blood.

    The Dr then examined me as I hadn't had much bleeding. My cervix was closed but I was in a LOT of pain with cramping so he gave me the option of seeing if I miscarried everything on my own over the next week or have a d&c last night. I chose the d&c as I just wanted it all over with.

    So i'm home now and feeling okay, just very sad and want to be pregnant again asap.
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  2. September 9th, 2012, 07:39 PM #2
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    I'm so sorry.
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  3. September 9th, 2012, 07:43 PM #3
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    I am so incredibly sorry for your loss...
    You're in my thoughts and prayers.
    Proud mom of 3 sweet boys...
    and one BEAUTIFUL little girl!
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  4. September 9th, 2012, 08:07 PM #4
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    Again Ruby,....my heart just breaks for you..That is exactly how I felt! Wanted a baby again pink or blue!
    I pmed you sweet lady! You will get through this!!
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  5. September 9th, 2012, 08:16 PM #5
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    Thank you for thinking of us, the support here is amazing!

    I just wish I knew 3 weeks ago, that baby had stopped growing. I really had NO idea. At 9w I felt quite safe that everything was going to be okay.

    Butterfly - Thank-you Thank-you Thank-you!!!
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  6. September 9th, 2012, 08:21 PM #6
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    I'm so sorry for your loss hun


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  7. September 9th, 2012, 09:07 PM #7
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    awww I am so sorry ruby! thinking of you and your family!
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    March/April 2013--SIRM NY--23 eggs, 15 embryos, 2 girls transferred, 1 girl and 1 unknown (only 4 celled at day 3 so no biopsy) frozen. BFP on HPT at 6dp5dt, Beta at 8dp5dt=70, Beta at 10dp5dt=216 , 1 hb at 6 weeks, ob appt at 7w2d--wow it's twins!!! CVS--2 HEALTHY GIRLS! Our twin girls were born 6 weeks early, but doing fabulously and we are so in love!! Our family is complete!!!
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  8. September 9th, 2012, 09:12 PM #8
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    So sorry Ruby. Hugs.
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  9. September 9th, 2012, 09:33 PM #9
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    I'm so sorry praying for you and your sweet baby x
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  10. September 9th, 2012, 09:47 PM #10
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    So sorry ruby... My heart is broken for you. Butterfly is right, you will come through this darkest tunnel and see the brightest of lights.. We're all thinking of you, (and your FB family is too).
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