STILL BFN at 10dpo - time to accept it?

[Northern_Shutterbug]

EmmyRoo - PM me if you want a distraction! I'm away from tomorrow morning but will be on email regularly.

[wilma_five]

Got my BFP! (13 dpo)

[dreamingpink77]

Hi Emmy, don't lose hope yet, but if I were you I would stop testing until AF is due. I had a Big Negative on 10dpo with a test that should give results at 10dpo, then tested on 12dpo and got a very very faint line. Still faint on 13dpo and I only got a dark line on 16dpo! and as for symptoms, I was a little tired on 12dpo and had some cm which started after ovulation and continued till now and had larger boobs (which could have easily been an AF symptom), nothing more. My temps were different from my usual charts cause usually they are a zig zag while this month they were increasing and made a stair like pattern, but that was the only thing that gave me hope I could be pregnant. Wishing you lots of luck

[EmmyRoo]

Thank you all for replying, you're all so lovely! And yay Wilma!

Well I didn't test today, temps still above coverline but not really climbing, just sort of meandering along. Had some v mild aches+brown cm today which I thought was AF, but hours later it's no heavier, so now my damn hopes are raising that it's implantation or breakthrough bleeding or something - what is breakthrough bleeding anyway?!

I'm going to see what my temps do and if this bleeding continues, may test sat/sun if AF isn't in full swing. What do you think?
X

[LacePrincess]

IME, those IC's are good because they're cheap, but frankly they suck for early testing. I've never managed to get a good DARK line on them until weeks into a confirmed pregnancy, with HCG blood tests results of almost 1000! So yeah, I have a real love/hate feeling about IC's, lol.

Having said that, I can't help obsessing over poas'ing either. Every time we TTC I say geez, learn already, no point getting so wrapped up in stupid pee sticks, and yet every 2ww can I resist? Nooooooo....... Yeesh.

Though this cycle I was more worried about my luteal phase being long enough to sustain a pregnancy (still bf'ing which can cause LPD) so it looks like my LP is at least 10 days, which is no worse than it was before, so I'm happy enough with that. (My usual LP is only 10-12 days). And, going to start a new knitting project today to have something not TTC to fuss over, lol.

Can't wait till the weekend for AF to show so I can eat like a madwomen and cheat cheat cheat cheat cheat on this damned diet!

[skrimpy]

So far:
10 dpo BFN
11 dpo am: very faint BFP
12 dpo pm: BFN

GL

I had this same experience.

I'd gotten a BFP at 10 DPO in a previous pg too and thought for sure I was out.

I would agree with pp and wait a few days to test!!!

[EmmyRoo]

Well, that's me out, AF in full flow. I'm really upset just now, especially as my luteal phase has dropped to 10 days, but hoping October is luckier for me. Thanks for all your support. X