Due in March/April/May 2013 Roll call!

[homebirthing princess]

Ahahahaaaaaaa I love it xx

[ThreeMenAndALAdy]

That is fantastic!!!! I get the you have your hands full comment all the time!!! If you see that I have them full, why are you bothering me with your bs conversation!!!

[spinningmadly]

People suck. Thats why we don't want to announce anything this time. I don't wanna hear the girl/boy comments especially because in my head I'm thinking " well we HAD a girl she just died , so screw you" I'm just not enough of jerk to say it out loud to them. I especially don't want to hear if we do find out its a boy all the comments about trying again? Etc. before I even have this baby. I do have hard pregnancies I admit it , but my aunt was already like if this is a boy , you better just adopt a girl , as if I can't make girls ..

[homebirthing princess]

People suck. Thats why we don't want to announce anything this time. I don't wanna hear the girl/boy comments especially because in my head I'm thinking " well we HAD a girl she just died , so screw you" I'm just not enough of jerk to say it out loud to them. I especially don't want to hear if we do find out its a boy all the comments about trying again? Etc. before I even have this baby. I do have hard pregnancies I admit it , but my aunt was already like if this is a boy , you better just adopt a girl , as if I can't make girls ..

i really wish i had of said nothing i was asking for trouble (according to my hubby)!!

hun you can make girls you had a beautiful little girl! i really wish ppl would keep their stupid opinions to theirselves grrrrrr!!!! theres every chance you are carrying a girl hun please dont loose hope xxx

[spinningmadly]

I know hbp but you thought people would just be excited for you! But it seems like everyone thinks they are helping by "preparing " you for the worst . There are plenty of families I know with 2 of one gender and the 3rd of the other , so I don't know why they act like its impossible

[Tiffani3]

Just try and ignore them hbp.
You have a little girly cooking no worries
I've had such a good day today I'm finally got my head round baby being a boy and I am actually really pleased he will fit perfectly into my family. My friends were over for lunch and were going on about girl this girl that (haven't told anyone that I know yet btw!!) so I told them that I think this one will be a boy and how I can't wait to have a baby again and it really doesn't matter what it's going to be, and I really felt like I meant it!
If that makes sense! xx

[Rosie85]

Glad to hear you are feeling better Tiffani! I hope I am able to come around this quickly like you if I am told boy in a couple days. Don't know what I would tell DS1 though he is really counting on a sister. Ugh I am getting nervous just typing about it!

I really think all the ladies told boy so far have had a great attitude and I am very impressed! Way to be great role models!

[spinningmadly]

DS1 says its a girl but hes semi uninterested at this point LOL. I think after last time he just assumes no baby will come out

[Tiffani3]

I'm sorry spinning it must be so hard for you.
My ds1 has been desperate for a sister for such a long time. We haven't told them yet either that its a boy. I over heard him the other day telling my niece that its defiantly a girl this time I just know! Bless him! He'll be ok with it though i know he will it's what's meant to be, this little man choose us as a family and we will all love him. xx

[spinningmadly]

thanks Tiff. I think it's made a 100x harder since we LOST a girl. to hear its a boy, means another type of loss from losing our last baby.
i think ds1 just thinks a girl would bother him less and have her own girl toys but we all know that wouldn't happen lol