♥ April 2011 Blue Cheer Squad Thread ♥

**Zivic-Bubac** · April 27th, 2011, 07:45 AM

Guys, I'm out again

I'm so sad atm, or better, I'm in denial. I was so sure this was my month....
You may call me paranoid, but I think DH didn't even made a deposit on THE day ( April 17th), because like 20 min after we were done, dd2 called for some water ( middle of the night

), and nothing went out, not a bit, which is very strange.
IDK how to ask him if he made a deposit without starting fight

I'm skipping my May-sway, February baby is just beyond inconvenient for me ( yeah right, I wish...) so all my positive energy is with you guys, let's here more BFPs!!!!

It's very hard not having DH on board, he keeps repeating he is satisfied with our 2 girls and he feels we are done. I'm soooo not done.
I mean, what's going on? DD 1 was 'non-fertile' day, DD 2 was 1st attempt success, am I THAT old? Feel free to call me 'granny ZB'
Oh, I forgot to say, my usual preAF spotting has started, and no, it's not implantation

My AF is due May 1st or 2nd the latest.

OK, I feel better already

**LolaInLove** · April 27th, 2011, 08:50 AM

Originally Posted by Flava

princessap do you get only 1 day of + OPK or more? You test 2 times/ day? If only 1 day of +OPK I would do it tomorrow morning. If 2 days I would do it tomorrow night. HTH

I agree with this also!

**LolaInLove** · April 27th, 2011, 08:57 AM

Oh Zivic, I am so sorry, it is so disheartening, I know. Well, about the DH....can you tell if he has an orgasm? Kwim? It would seem that something would come out if he did. Hopefully he wasn't faking because he doesn't want another....that is very unfair to you. I guess that's why I ask if you can tell. Just take a breather month and rejuvenate yourself, maybe have some talks with DH about the fact that you definitely want another one and hopefully you will feel like he is more on board. I'm sorry, hun, I know it is so frustrating.

**begonia** · April 27th, 2011, 09:00 AM

iluvmyman, FX this morning you had a great attempt You don't have to wait for the OPK to go negative; really, using OPK's is something that is most helpful if you can have a couple practice cycles to get your O down, but I know you really didn't want to wait. I think your safest bet is DTD 12-24 hours after that 1st +OPK. Keep us posted!

ZB I am so sorry to hear you're out :-( How many months have you tried now? I totally get skipping months due to inconvenient birthdays... that's why I'm planning to wait til fall, though I keep thinking we ought to just do it now. I'm bummed for you that DH isn't on board still! FX he comes around.

**LolaInLove** · April 27th, 2011, 09:01 AM

Originally Posted by iluvmyman

We are very serious but I also read in this thread that maybe a negative OPK (-ve if that means negative OPK) is when you should DTD? I don't want to risk missing this window this month. It's so much info and DH has decided to just do it in the a.m. which s/b about 24 hrs. I think. I am taking Mucinex and doing the egg whites, so I guess we'll just go for it. Timing is not supposed to be the most important thing in a sway and we are pretty close. IF we get up in the a.m. I guess we'll just go for it.

I always just went for it the night of the first + opks (and then we did it the next night, but I am more on the sperm meet egg program since I'm older). I am of the opinion that timing doesn't matter, and you seem to be doing a full out sway with all the other stuff, so I say go for it when you feel its a good time. I don't know if your cm is affected by supps and mucinex, but I don't pay attention because mine is messed up from that stuff so I just go by when my body says I am about to O and then use the replacement cm (ew/preseed) and don't worry about it. GL!

**iluvmyman** · April 27th, 2011, 09:18 AM

OPK still positive this morning and cm looks good just not as abundant as I would like, but DH is pushing for this morning even though I think we should wait till tonight. So frustrating.

**begonia** · April 27th, 2011, 09:33 AM

All you can do at this point is go with your gut! I would lean toward this am b/c I'd rather be too early than too late and risk the O+12. Good luck!

**iluvmyman** · April 27th, 2011, 09:44 AM

Thank Begonia, you've been a real support. After all this and he's been SO supportive I wish we'd just wait till tonight. I agree on the too early. Hopefully the egg whites and mucinex will make it OK. I'm just did the BS douche and am waiting an hour before we DTD and DH is off to get his coffee and just took a 5 hr energy so I'll just pray now since I couldn't talk him out of it. So stupid for playing computer games. You'd think my 35 year old husband was 19!

**Flava** · April 27th, 2011, 10:07 AM

iluvmyman If your CM looks better now it ok to do it on the morning! Maybe you test tonight and no more +opk, you know? So morning is just ok.

**Flava** · April 27th, 2011, 10:12 AM

ziviz Im sorry for the BFN

What is wrong with February?? I have a Feb. baby and it's just great!
Im sure you are not old! Im the

old here anyway ...
And just ask DH because if mine would fake it and trick me I would be so mad!

hmmm maybe I do another msu... no trick there lol

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