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    Sad Face Please Help! BFP but so worrief about T levels before O

    So, today I have gotten my BFP at 10 dpo! My last BFP ended in a chemical but thist test line is much darker so I have a feeling this is a sticky!

    But, and I feel so stupid, I had huge stress levels (different occasions) before ovulation. It was the acute stress kind of thing. Big big big argue with DH, a race against the clock with 5 boys in the car and I had to find the shortest way home, some roads we're closed and I was totally freaking out. I worked the evening before ovulation and the morning of ovulation day and had trouble with a difficult patient (who was mad and yelling at me, being agressive).

    And now I feel like totally loosing my mind. This can't be a girl. My testosterone was probably sky high! I'm so emotional right now and really need someone telling me a girl is a possiblity.
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    nobody?
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    I don't think that one or two incidences of elevated testosterone will have any effect on your sway...I bet you have your pink bean in there.
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    Yeah I agree one or two incidences aren't going to seal your fate.
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    It can be a girl. I know you've done a lot to try and get here. Stay hopeful! Girl moms stress out too!
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    you did the best you can, you still have to live your life - the month of my bfp i had a uni exam and i started a new job, major stress but couldn't be avoided
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    Congrats on the bfp by the way! Woohoo!
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    DD1 our beautiful rainbow baby joined us october 2015. No sway...just miracles.

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    Thanks ladies!!!
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    sorry, i've been absolutely slammed with q's the last week. thanks for your patience!

    First of all, CONGRATS!! I'm so happy for you.

    A girl is always a possibility, no matter what. T takes a long time to rise and fall, one day here and there can't make up for the changes you made in diet and other lifestyle stuff. I had TONS of acute stress before I conceived DD.
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    I always love it when you come around!! Thanks you so much for the reply!
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