Due in March/April/May 2013 Roll call!

[mummypink]

I have no clue Lassie but all I would say is that at that stage girly bits and boy bits look pretty much identical so try not to worry too much - easier said than done I know!!

I'm having a tough day today with gd, I keep thinking I am fine with another boy and it doesn't matter that I won't have a daughter but then I have days like today and I just feel sad. I think about all the experiences I won't ever have, won't ever know what my daughter would look like. I even toy with the idea of having another baby in the future but I know that wouldn't be a good thing. I know that if it was another boy the gd would be unbearable and it just wouldn't be fair.

I seem to see little girls with one or two brothers everywhere, and although I don't begrudge their mums I do feel so envious and think 'why couldn't have that?'. Then I feel like a horrible person for not just being happy with being lucky enough to have three children.

I thought once I found out for definite one way or another I would stop obsessing but I'm still not, even with the pretty much 100% definite boy scan that I had there is a part of me thinking maybe they got it wrong. I keep searching around online for boy scans that turned out to be a girl but I know that at this stage it is very unlikely for the scan to be wrong. Even my friend said the techs at the hospital I had my scan have been known to be wrong, but I think that was quite a few years ago and it sounds like they have told people girl when it was actually a boy and not the other way round. The tech was so thorough and lovely, and although she said she couldn't ever say 100% she did say she would be extremely surprised if she was wrong and it was a girl.

Can someone invite a special pill please that takes all our gd craziness away?!

Also, I'd love to know what Atomic makes of the stats on our group. I just don't get it! Surely in a sample of random people there should be a more even spread of girls vs boys even without the swaying. It isn't even like we all did the same sway, we had our variations on it and the ones that seem to have got their dg didn't really sway at all.
Maybe my dh was right and I should have just dropped all the sway stuff and concentrated on getting pregnant, maybe then I would have got my little girl.

[Cinss]

Lassie i love the little hand in that pic

[Cinss]

mummypink - http://genderdreaming.com/forum/gend...t=sways+attack

[coocoobananas]

These are all the same thoughts I have... Would if I never swayed at all?!? But if we didn't I think there would have been more regret! I am honestly now just feeling peace with this... It's been 6 weeks of all over the place emotions. Give yourself time, you just have to find the good in it and I really think if I could you will too... It may just take a while
When you do have a happy thought if 3 boys, try to keep that close. I have my 2 boys school pictures side by side on the wall both with little ties on... I see the 3rd there and it really makes me smile

[Lassie1982]

Lassie i love the little hand in that pic

me too
I always marvel at how perfectly formed our little babies are at such a young gestation, its amazing.

[Bimby]

HBP Congrats, your LO is already adorable!! I just went back and had a look at your nub pics & they look like my babies so you are giving me more hope of a princess.

Mummypink I'm so sorry you are feeling sad, I know I would be exactly the same, even though I say Im happy either way I know deep down Im really pushing for pink. I wish I could give you some magic powder that takes the pain away, I know when you have your LO in your arms you will be so happy & couldnt imagine anyone different in your life but until then all I can offer you are super big hugs. Please vent away whenever you feel you need to. I know my DH would be of no support to me if I was in the same boat as they dont seem to understand so feel free to come on here for it

Lassie, your babies hand is sooo cute! I have no idea what the things are between the legs.. I wish I could help x

[homebirthing princess]

Lassie I have no idea what those could be, I don't think 3d is the best for gender clues as the images can be so distorted...but bubs is super cute hun

Mummy I'm so sorry your finding it hard today wish I could give u a hug for real....Im not very good with words but plz give your self time to grieve for your daughter and don't feel bad all your thoughts and emotions are completely normal!! Have u thought about having a bonding scan hun? It really helped me with ds2 I would totally recommend one also u could get the gender confirmed so it could help you with all the what ifs in your head! I don't understand why so many of you are having boys its crazy!!

Bunny I'm glad I have given you hope hun did u sway? Xx

[homebirthing princess]

Ha should say bimby not bunny lol x

[Bimby]

HBP- No I didnt sway. This LO was a complete surprise. Id just had surgery to remove a huge fibroid 3 months earlier so Id felt like Id just given birth lol - We were going to think about it next year but in all honesty I dont think Id be very good at swaying anyway, Im a bit lazy lol. Did you sway?

[Lassie1982]

Hey Bimby i just noticed that we are exactly a week apart in our due dates
Will you be finding out the gender??

Hoping you get to see some pink!!