Due in March/April/May 2013 Roll call!

[mummypink]

These are all the same thoughts I have... Would if I never swayed at all?!? But if we didn't I think there would have been more regret! I am honestly now just feeling peace with this... It's been 6 weeks of all over the place emotions. Give yourself time, you just have to find the good in it and I really think if I could you will too... It may just take a while
When you do have a happy thought if 3 boys, try to keep that close. I have my 2 boys school pictures side by side on the wall both with little ties on... I see the 3rd there and it really makes me smile

Thanks Coocoo, it really helps to have support from people who know exactly how I'm feeling. I'm so glad you are ok now, I'm sure I will be too once I have got my head around it. xx

[Bimby]

Lassie my EDD based on my LMP is actually the 24th May but every scan Ive had (except for the 6 week one) has me a week ahead so thats why I changed my ticker. My ob hasnt changed my date yet but as Im having a C/S because of recent surgery Im keeping my ticker based on that so I can keep track. Im terrified of rupture as the surgery was 3 months before I fell pregnant so Im scared I'll go into labor early (I went 8 days early with DS2) so yeah we basically are due the same day - did any of that make sense lol

[Lassie1982]

Oh Jark - take no notice of any such comments.
At the end of the day, unless someone is a technician, then all anyone does is 'guess' we all guess based on what we have seen before, there is no crap guess or good guess.

[Lassie1982]

Mummypink, I just want to give you a big hug.
I wish I had the words to make it right, but this is one of those things that only time will heal.
If there is one thing that I have learnt from this site it's that the GD does fade away, that once you have your baby you love them all the same.
You will heal with time, let yourself grieve, cry it out, pamper yourself if that makes you feel better.
I hope you feel better soon, and remember the old saying 'no matter how dark the dawn, the sun will always rise again'
Thinking of you xo

[jark22]

Oh Jark - take no notice of any such comments.
At the end of the day, unless someone is a technician, then all anyone does is 'guess' we all guess based on what we have seen before, there is no crap guess or good guess.

I know. But it's hard when I seem to be the only one being corrected (by the same person). It's happened at least 3 or 4 times now. These stupid hormones make me extra sensitive as well

[mummypink]

Thanks Lassie, I know I will be fine. I think it is just the come down after all the swaying and then hoping about getting pregnant and the hoping that we got our girl, psyching up to the scan etc. It is bound to take some time to come back to reality and realise that it is a boy.

I know I will never regret having him, we always planned to have three and I know I wouldn't swap my other two for anything so as soon as I set eyes on him I will feel the same way about him. I'm also glad I found out the gender though too as I think I would have been at a high risk for getting pnd otherwise. Loving our new little man to pieces doesn't take away the part of me that has always longed for a daughter, and I would hate to be feeling sad when I should be cherishing the moments with my newborn.

I so hope now that everyone gets their desired gender, I would hate for anyone else to feel like this. The stats have GOT to improve for this group surely!! xx

[spinningmadly]

Jark, I know what posts you are talking about and I see what you see sometimes so I don't think you were wrong lol

[jark22]

Jark, I know what posts you are talking about and I see what you see sometimes so I don't think you were wrong lol

Thank you . And it's not so much about whether I'm right or wrong. I've never, ever claimed to be an expert.....or that I even know anything about what I'm talking about. I'm just guessing like everyone else. Sometimes I question the pictures because I've seen so many turn out to be the opposite of what everyone guesses. I'm not sure why it has to be brought to my attention or challenged multiple times. I don't get it.... When I ask legitimate questions so that I can understand better- they never seem to be answered. Oh well

[Cinss]

I know. But it's hard when I seem to be the only one being corrected (by the same person). It's happened at least 3 or 4 times now. These stupid hormones make me extra sensitive as well

Never take anything personally on the forum, its hard to know sometimes if someone is being helpful or having a bad day or whatever just by reading what they type.

[jark22]

Never take anything personally on the forum, its hard to know sometimes if someone is being helpful or having a bad day or whatever just by reading what they type.

Very true. I'm just extra sensitive with these silly hormones. It's really more irritating than anything else. Especially since I don't see it happening to anyone else.