November thread for all swaying BLUE xxxxx

[The Anchor]

Great! Have you considered preseed? Looks like a great sway...

[minimatron]

I decided not to use it because I have been taking Robitussin and I have more than enough cm....
Just a tmi question.... dtd the second attempt... did anyone's dh find it hard to finish? I think we just had not much sleep, he had a big day at work yesterday and the dog has kept us awake from a massive storm...plus all the goo inside me :-) ....
Anyway I'm all done, til tonight. I'll keep laying down till the girls wake up and then I'll need to shower... I don't smell nice with all this goo lol.....

[The Anchor]

No you definitely don't need preseed if you're good on the CM front. Personally, my DH takes FOREVER when the pressure is on...which I understand. I can't even mention the word baby if we are within 12 hours of DTD!

GL!

[luvalittleman]

And by the 3 times in the fertile window i am talking about means - when you get a +opk you do attempt1 that night, then attemp2 the next morning, and then the last one that night.

It's hard to find the most current information on here. Thanks Cinss and Dloui.
The reason I thought to try the other way was because I only get a positive OPK for half a day and last months chart shows temp spike on day of OPK. That means I am only going to get in 1 attempt on O day.
Also, I thought sperm take a day or two to replenish. So without starting a minimum of 3 days before, I can't see how 3 attempts in even a 24 hour period is going to generate more sperm. I'm back to being confused again...

[minimatron]

By my calculations... around 7 hours between... poor bugger and he's gone to work again....
Yesterday arvo I did a Tai boa session and then carried my 13kg two year old around doing squats lunges, calf raises etc... dh pulled heavy cables all day. I'm hoping that helped on the exercise front.
I really hope I get pg from this.... surely three attempts in the fertile window should do it....

[The Anchor]

3 attempts in the fertile we really up your chances of both getting pg AND of getting your boy...I'll be stalking you!

[minimatron]

It's hard to find the most current information on here. Thanks Cinss and Dloui.
The reason I thought to try the other way was because I only get a positive OPK for half a day and last months chart shows temp spike on day of OPK. That means I am only going to get in 1 attempt on O day.
Also, I thought sperm take a day or two to replenish. So without starting a minimum of 3 days before, I can't see how 3 attempts in even a 24 hour period is going to generate more sperm. I'm back to being confused again...

Good point... I read something on here that its about getting as many sperm there waiting for the egg and its completely different to a girl sway as they fr for 7-10 days and then an attempt after abstaining.... hope someone can explain it better...

[The Anchor]

I know it is confusing, but believe it or not Atomic has an essay out there for almost every question you can ask!

http://genderdreaming.com/forum/ttc-...ff-o-12-a.html

[Cass]

When we conceived our girls, we DTD most days during the month of attempt. We got pregnant the first month of trying each time.

So when we did our first attempt last week, we waited for our positive OPK then did an attempt that evening, tried in the morning (but got interrupted by our girls!) and then another attempt the next evening. I am really happy with our timing as it is the opposite to what we did with the girls. Now, just I just have my fingers crossed for a BFP in a couple of weeks!

[The Anchor]

Oh boy! for you Cass...