Roll-call!! Due June/July/August 2013

[Atsaukina1]

ordered a bellaband today from babysrus

[Maple]

This also happened to me yesterday, I sneezed and a drop of pee got out I hope this won't start happening regularly, yuch! Imagine getting a cold and having to change liners/underpants everytime lol

This has been happening to me also.. Has been for a couple of weeks... I have been vomiting a bit this past week and its has been a real issue! I feel awful, lol.

[Maple]

I got told at 12 weeks 75% girl but the tech is so great I just took it as gospel, then at 20 weeks they said they were inclined to agree was a girl as they couldn't see anything. I found out at birth he was a boy. I hadn't bought pink as I am really superstitious and didn't want to jinx anything. I bonded straight away but I did cry for about 3-4 weeks after and the midwives were really worried about me and I never want to experience that low feeling again ever and I would wish no one else had to experience it either. I couldn't stop grinning when they told me girl though - was a lovely feeling. Not finding out at 12 weeks this time!!!!

Wow thats really sad, how upsetting for you. I too would not bother 'finding out' this time. I hope you hear pink this time.

[Maple]

Hi guys - am feeling really down today - has anyone else had days like that? Been awake for what seems like forever since DS2 came in as he couldnt sleep at 5am. Just laying there worrying about money and bills and how we will cope and oh god what are we doing! I also keep thinking I cant imagine me having a pink bean as it just seems so impossible. Not that I wouldnt love a baby of any gender its just that this is definitely last chance saloon for us and its quite scary knowing you may never get what your heart most desires. I also keep checking my boobs and keep thinking the left one is marginally bigger than the right which would mean boy. I think I can honestly say I am going insane! Its raining here which doesnt help!!! I hate feeling like this - I prefer feeling happy. Sorry for the miserable post. I hope everyone else is having a much better day xx

Me too! DS2 was awake at 5.30 this morning and the thought of facing the day that early nearly made me cry. I feel so sick, and cant wait for the MS to stop. Then I ate some really naughty foods at 11 am and felt horrible. I feel really bored because I dont have the energy to do much, so dread the day time... I need some energy!

Im sure this will pass for us though... Hope tomorrow is a much better day! XX

[Maple]

Hi guys - am feeling really down today - has anyone else had days like that? Been awake for what seems like forever since DS2 came in as he couldnt sleep at 5am. Just laying there worrying about money and bills and how we will cope and oh god what are we doing! I also keep thinking I cant imagine me having a pink bean as it just seems so impossible. Not that I wouldnt love a baby of any gender its just that this is definitely last chance saloon for us and its quite scary knowing you may never get what your heart most desires. I also keep checking my boobs and keep thinking the left one is marginally bigger than the right which would mean boy. I think I can honestly say I am going insane! Its raining here which doesnt help!!! I hate feeling like this - I prefer feeling happy. Sorry for the miserable post. I hope everyone else is having a much better day xx

BTW - my left boob is twice the size of the right (seriously)! It has always been bigger, but it has swelled now. It has been the better milk producer, lol.

[OneLastDream]

Me too! DS2 was awake at 5.30 this morning and the thought of facing the day that early nearly made me cry. I feel so sick, and cant wait for the MS to stop. Then I ate some really naughty foods at 11 am and felt horrible. I feel really bored because I dont have the energy to do much, so dread the day time... I need some energy!

Im sure this will pass for us though... Hope tomorrow is a much better day! XX

Ah I hope you feel better today. I know the exhausted bored feeling - it's horrible. Am so sorry you are so sick too - I did feel sick for 3-4 weeks but not that bad now and I was never actually sick. Are those symptoms different from before? Hope you feel better soon xx it's tomorrow here now and I feel bit happier today - I hope everyone else does too x

[Violet_]

Love reading through this thread girls. Well, I know I said I wasn't having any sickness, that all changed! The last 3 days have been so hard. I've been so sick and very very full on fatigue. With three young children and the school run for my oldest I'm not getting much rest. Feel very overwhelmed and have had some big melt downs today. Had to call a girlfriend and have a good sook, now I feel a little better emotionally. Just so scared of everything being okay after last month's chemical. And feel like I've taken too much on having another baby with three kids already. But I know it will pass and I will adapt and everything will be fine.

[dreamingpink77]

I got told at 12 weeks 75% girl but the tech is so great I just took it as gospel, then at 20 weeks they said they were inclined to agree was a girl as they couldn't see anything. I found out at birth he was a boy. I hadn't bought pink as I am really superstitious and didn't want to jinx anything. I bonded straight away but I did cry for about 3-4 weeks after and the midwives were really worried about me and I never want to experience that low feeling again ever and I would wish no one else had to experience it either. I couldn't stop grinning when they told me girl though - was a lovely feeling. Not finding out at 12 weeks this time!!!!

Oh my, this is aweful! I'd rather not know anything about the gender than being told girl and then find out it's a boy, I would be devastated. I'm sorry you had to go through this, no wonder you couldn't stop crying though! Poor sweetie, it must have been so bad

[dreamingpink77]

This will make you all laugh hopefully!!!! When I was told ds2 was a girl at the 12 week scan he said he was able to tell through the nub but I understood it that certain bones grow differently in boys and girls which determined their gender and he was looking at these bones - which I thought grew through the body!!!! For about the first 6 months to year of ds2's life I was distraught as I thought he was actually a girl trapped in a boys body and would have to deal with it later in life and go through trauma because of it!!!! I was so naive and had no idea of the nub theory!!!! I have no problem at all with any choices my babies decide to make later in life and if they decide to be gay then as long as they are happy and still love their mummy I really don't mind (although would like T least one grand child!!!) but I just thought he was going to have to fight to get the body he really needed and would be totally mis understood!!!! I really am very silly sometimes!!!

Oh this is funny thanks for sharing, it did made me laugh but probably I would have done the same as you....I had never heard anything about the nub theory before coming here and on ingender site.

[dreamingpink77]

This did make me laugh, bless ya!
My DS2 is very in touch with his femine side, one Christmas he was obsessed with Beauty and the Beast and wanted a belle doll from the Disney shop. I brought him one, didn't see any harm in it. I don't think he's gay though (wouldn't mind if he was) because six months later he kept taking her dress off and having what he called naked picnics with his other toys lol.

Oh my, your little one seems so sweet Naughty boy, taking naked pics of a lady doll!