Due in March/April/May 2013 Roll call!

[jark22]

I was thinking about having 3 boys and how it scares me bc ds1 and Ds2 fight a lot sometimes and ds1 one says he doesn't like him and wants a baby girl this time.. Anyway I wonder if it is boy #3 if ds1 will be close with him. Dh Is the oldest and extremely close to his youngest brother , not so much to the middle one.

Your boys are still very young. Mine are now 3.5 and 5 years old - and the fighting has really decreased. They play together much better now. I hope the fighting gets better for your boys. It can be exhausting, right?

[Bimby]

My 2 boys love each other so far so I hope that stays. My DH & his bro are pretty good mates so I guess it depends. I know my dad and his brother dont talk at all, crazy hey

Surgena Im a monster, really I am!! I had some ladies from my DS1's kindy ask how far along I was and I saw them nearly choke lol They then said that they didnt believe I was only 16 weeks (luckily I didnt say I could infact only be 15 weeks lol) I always put on weight quickly, I just hope it slows down or Im in trouble lol

Jark, Im just so sorry you are feeling so down hon, I wish I knew what to say to make it easier for you. thinking of all of you ladies that didnt get their desired gender, I hope you know we are here for you whenever you need us x

[Shellbelle]

I am just now catching up and I am so sorry for those of y'all who have heard opposites. I really thought that the luck would turn around with this group.

[Shellbelle]

I just got back from my grandmother's funeral. It has been an awful few days and I am so exhausted and emotionally spent. And then at the funeral all people wanted to talk about was how huge I am for 15 weeks, and predicting whether this baby would be a boy or a girl... So basically I've been crying out of grief AND hurt feelings all day. I am ready to go to my own house and hide out until next weeks gender scan.

[Cinss]

Shell so sorry about your grandmother Hopefully you can get some well deserved rest and relaxation when you get home.

[spinningmadly]

Jark yeah , they are young, I think it just makes me sad that they don't get along when they fight. Part of it is their personalities , ds1 is an introvert and rather just be alone sometimes and ds2 is an extrovert and very bossy

[suregena]

I know the skull theory is kind of pointless, but I've tried reading the explanation post on it and I still don't quite get it... because then I read conflicting statements elsewhere. It must really be grasping at straws in that case.

[Brandles]

Shell~ I'm so sorry to hear about your grandmother. (((Hugs)))

About the boys fighting... My two oldest boys are 16 and 13.5 and they fight constantly. They are always bickering about something and it drives me crazy. My DH has a brother about the same age difference and my DH said when they got into highschool the fighting stopped. My oldest is a junior and you'd think he'd grow up by now. They'll both be in highschool together next year so I'm praying that will be our magic year and they finally get along.

[jark22]

Girls with 3 boys: please tell me you love it and things to look forward to. Everyone at work was giving me the sympathy face today and they didn't even know how much I wanted a girl. One woman, who has 3 boys, just kept telling me she was sorry. When I asked her why she said "oh you'll see why". Someone else told me that they couldn't see me as a 'girl mom' anyway. What is that supposed to mean? The comments are just the worst......

[suregena]

Girls with 3 boys: please tell me you love it and things to look forward to. Everyone at work was giving me the sympathy face today and they didn't even know how much I wanted a girl. One woman, who has 3 boys, just kept telling me she was sorry. When I asked her why she said "oh you'll see why". Someone else told me that they couldn't see me as a 'girl mom' anyway. What is that supposed to mean? The comments are just the worst......

Ugh! People say the weirdest things to pregnant and expecting women, from gender to body... everything. It never helps or is complimentary or nice.