♥ May 2011 Blue Cheer Squad Thread ♥

[iluvmyman]

I totally AGREE with you iluv, When I go out site with my kids ..OMG they drive me CRAZY!!! and I say ''what heck am I thinking'' really. I just want another boy so bad ..I love the relationship that my girls have with each other and would love to have that for my DS. And 2 of each would be very neat.

I'm so glad you understand me, I was out w/ my girlfriends today and said there is no way that I'm letting anyone know I'm a homeschooler cuz I will give homeschool a really bad name. They were crazy, wish I could say that isn't somewhat normal though. DD1 was so compliant and I was so good and was never an issue ever and did I have it together.....then came DD2. She's cute my Oh My is she difficult. I used to think DD1 was so good cuz I was such a good parent. HA!

It's so hard right now with the little ones and trying to keep the house clean (failing miserably, in case you were wondering ), plus everything else on our plates. But when all is said and done, I couldn't imagine ever looking back and wishing we had less children. There is a season and this crazy one will pass. That's not to say I don't call my DH crying that I just can't do it all and the kids are ganging up on me.

I'm super sensitive this way, but I only have so many years to have children, then it's gone, gone. I'll never get the opportunity to help create a life, to feel a baby kick inside my stomach, to nurse, to hear my child call me mom for the 1st time.....you know what I mean. What a precious gift, and one I've taken for granted in some ways.

2 boys would be great fun. I want my son get to be a "big" brother again also. DS#1 is such a sensitive child in a good way and has always loved babies. He keeps DS2 alive in such neat and precious ways. After what we went through I think it will be so healing for all of us.

Keep having children MFC, as many as you and DH think you can handle. You can do it!!!

Man, I am always so long winded. Thanks for bearing w/ me.

[iluvmyman]

I'm such a horrible wife! I took my mood out on dh and told him I did not want another and he got upset said he was just getting used to the idea of another one =(

I feel even more bad now!

Want to just go to sleep and wake up to a new day tomorrow.

I'm sorry sweetie! Just give him a little smooch, take a bath and go to bed. He'll forgive you. A good night sleep will do you wonders or get a little break. My Frapps always make me a little happier. I put my DH through such torture w/ my hormones. LOL! When I'm pregnant I tell him to leave at least once. I hope you feel better tomorrow. I'll b prayin for ya!

[TTC5]

Thanks iluv =) xx

[babydes56]

Hi ladies i'm back after a month's break. I cant believe that so much has happened in a month. I see a lot of girls from IG have joined since i was away, welcome ladies! AF just came today so i'm on to the BSD/COT etc. I'm not planning on taking clomid this month because i usually ovulate on my own once i stop the pill so hoping to a natural ovulation. I will take clomid next month if this cycle doesnt work out for me.

I cant comment to all thread because so much has happened but i know Jen had bfn, sorry to hear. TTC5, hope your daughter's well. Congrats to Chunksta & GL to all the ladies in 2WW

[TTC5]

Welcome back babydes!

[begonia]

iluvmyman I am so glad you joined our little thread! You definitely bring some great encouragement and perspective, so thank you :-) And too funny ... I could have written the EXACT same thing re: my DD1 and DD2!

HUGS TTC5!! I am so sorry you're having a tough run love. I hope that today feels better for you. FWIW I got all kinds of mad at my DH yesterday and said the same thing about maybe we shouldn't have anymore. And he got pretty upset too. Which is funny b/c a year ago this was all me, wanting a third, and now I'd say it's more him. So I think it really hurt his feelings.

MFC thanks for sharing re: L'arg! I am dropping it. I really liked how regular my cycle was. I haven't had a cycle longer than 28 days in over a year, so this is definitely abnormal for me and since L'arg is the only change (I'd been taking fish oil and EPO for months) I think I'm just not going to do it. FX you get your boy ... ITA that if I have one boy I will wish for one more, just so he could have a brother. But DH is like, NO! THREE! THREE is it! LOL :-)

I hate not knowing when AF will arrive!!! Driving me crazy! We have a ton to do this weekend so I guess I'll just make sure I bring the necessary supplies everywhere we go in case the ol' witch shows up.

Lola I hope you're doing OK sweetheart! Just thinking about you so thought I'd give a shout out :-)

[begonia]

Oh and I meant to wave hi!!! to babydes! Glad to see you!

[TTC5]

Thanks Begonia!
I am feeling better emotionally but this darn flu has taken a hold of me, can't get to sleep and it is almost midnight ;(

[Flava]

Thanks Flava.

What does grapeseed do? And is it only for DW right?

I will order the wheat grass in capsule form, but next cycle ..I am now waiting to O.

grape seed is antioxidant it's for DH too. I also ordered the wheatgrass same thing what I have in powder but in gelatin capsules. So we just drink this until I got it.

[Flava]

Trying this year :S
I am thinking maybe it is better for us to wait... I dunno... DH left work yesterday officially to go back to study so our finances are going to be heaps tough and we already found it hard as it is.. maybe I am being silly wanting another right now..
Plus, my almost 3 y/o STILL wakes at night should I try and get her out of this before bringing another newborn in this home?
Add to it, we have 10 people in my home right now as Mum and my sister and 2 brothers are living with us - long story there but it could be months and months before they get their own home..

omg you scared me now...almost 3 and waking up? What's gonna happen with my DD4?
You and DH should tell the family to try to move out soon...I would go crazy living with others
Sometimes I also think WTH Im doing TTC again? We are all alone , never any help , nothing. So it's hard with 4 kids. Besides it will be another girl anyway who am I kidding here , right?