Anyone swaying april/may?

[Three Gorgeous Pickles]

Ive started testing on OPK's but the line is still very faint. I ov anywhere between day 17 and day 22 so im still waiting - day 13 today. My cycles seem so long since the miscarriage - its so frustrating, i had a pretty regular 28 day cycle before.

[wishing on a star]

Have u thought about taking any supplements to try and regulize your cucles Hun? Have u decided whay your doing for timing this month ? And diet , supps ect ?
Xx

[praying4princess]

Ive started testing on OPK's but the line is still very faint. I ov anywhere between day 17 and day 22 so im still waiting - day 13 today. My cycles seem so long since the miscarriage - its so frustrating, i had a pretty regular 28 day cycle before.

Pickles, we must be on the same cycle!!! Thats usually when I O too, so thats what Im waiting on as well!!!

[praying4princess]

Happy Mothers Day to everyone!!!!! Hope you guys have a fantastic day and those men in your life do everything for you today so you can relax!! Lol Im still working on trying to get my 10 yr old to unload the dishwasher for me!!

Hi Wishing! We're working on frequent release, and Im sticking with the rephresh again but I dont think Ill add any after DTD this time! Just going to watch pH and hopefully it will stay low! FX!!! My dad wants to take me to eat today for Mothers Day so not really good for the diet but Im going to do my very best!! We're just going to McAlisters, and they have alot of salads so I will probably choose that and that way I can take off the toppings and limit my dressing!! Im just hoping and praying this will be our blessed month for our baby girl!! Daddy is looking forward to an early Fathers day present and late MOthers day present! Lol Hope you have fun on your Holiday Wishing!!! Be safe!

[wishing on a star]

Thanks hunny will be straight back online as soon as i get back, lots of luck for your attempt, really hope this is your month
xxxxxx

[Three Gorgeous Pickles]

Have u thought about taking any supplements to try and regulize your cucles Hun? Have u decided whay your doing for timing this month ? And diet , supps ect ?
Xx

I don't really know what supplements there are that help make cycles more regular - what supplements are there please?

We are doing frequent release/BD this month with sylk, but we may not use sylk the last BD before our cut off as we have used sylk every month so far and no BFP so im wondering if this is affecting the sperm too much? What do you think? I am trying hard on the diet (although I 'fell off' and caved in to a magnum ice cream today - regretting it though!).
I so hope this is the month for a sticky BFP. My aim was to be pregnant by the baby we losts due date which would have been 30th May so this is my last try to achieve that aim. Im struggling in my head between swaying hard this month and just trying as much as possible to get pregnant, but then I do want our little girl so much - its a tough decision!
At the park today I saw a mother with three sons and they were having so much fun that it reinforced for me that three boys would be ok - not my perfect family, but lovely all the same and i would be grateful just being able to have a third child. My only problem is that a girl i met 5 years ago at my sons antenatal group became a good friend of mine and we both went on to have boys as second children. She knew that i was pregnant a third time and that i went on to miscarry and at christmas when she was almost 5 months pregnant she told me that she was pregnant with her third too but had hidden it from me as she hadnt wanted three kids and it happened accidentally. She is pregnant with a girl and due the same time as the baby that i miscarried! I am so jealous (it feels like she has my baby). Im happy for her that she is getting a girl after 2 boys but its so unfair - she hadn't wanted a third child, let alone swayed for months and months. Im finding it hard being around her. So as you can see this month is a real dilemma - try everything to get pregnant so im pregnant by 30th may when my baby would have been born and her little girl will be born, or keep trying to get our own little girl which may never happen or may not happen for many more months.

Sorry to pour out all my woes! The closer it gets to what would have been my due date and the closer it gets to seeing my friend have her baby girl the more down i feel about it all.

[Three Gorgeous Pickles]

Pickles, we must be on the same cycle!!! Thats usually when I O too, so thats what Im waiting on as well!!!

Excellent, thats great we are on a similar cycle i think im going to need a cycle buddy this month. This month is proving emotionally hard.

[Three Gorgeous Pickles]

Wishing - Hope you have a fantastic holiday. Relax and enjoy hun.
Where are you off to on holiday? (Just being nosey as i see you are UK like me. I live in south east England)

[praying4princess]

Thank you Wishing, me too!!!!!!

Pickles~ First off, dont feel bad about the ice cream....I went to eat with my dad and ordered a salad and was careful not to eat the tomatoes or much dressing...YET I did manage to eat a HUGE piece of carrot cake YUMMY!!! And I mean it was literally called "Colossal Carrot Cake"!! LOL Buty thats all Ive eaten today besides a yogurt, so I guess its not that bad!

I completely understand about your pregnant friend! I would feel the same way, especially as much as we want a girl and here she is and didnt even want another child! But you know, God has a reason for everything! I pray that He blesses us with our much desired healthy baby girls, but if not I have to trust that He has a reason and will give us peace with it. I know for me I keep thinking about last month, I know I had implantation and something happened....so I keep thinking, what if that was my baby girl and something went wrong and what if it doesnt happen again, what if that was my one shot at a girl. But I just have to put my trust in God, that He knows in my heart what I want and He knows what the outcome will be, and all I can do is pray and ask Him!

[Glittergirl]

HI everyone! Happy Mothers day! I had a great day with my boys so far! We went to a farm to pick peaches and all day they have been helping around the house. DH is doing all my "honey do" list stuff! Wishing, how are you feeling? Hopefully the ms isn't too bad today. P4P--this is your month girl!!! I have been reading your attempt and so far your sway sounds so wonderful! Pickles--I think this is your month too, you and p4p have the same cycle so girls I'm praying for you! sorry about your dilemma. But sometimes stories like that help in that girls are born everyday to moms of all boys and they didn't even sway, so maybe if our sway isn't perfect, it's still a great shot! Probably the odds are better than what they had and they still got a girl right? So I had a revelation-- I feel at peace with my sway and I'm really happy. I kinda like the idea of being an all boy mom as strange as it sounds. I think I mentioned before, I actually just wanted boys and it was dh that always wanted at least one girl. maybe it's cause I've always been the princess of the house Anyway, the pressure to have a girl comes from those around me that keep pointing out that I have to try for a girl. the other night I realized that the great desire for a girl is cause everyone "expects" a girl. Even dh said he's ok with another boy. It's just the annoying comments that make me feel like I HAVE to produce a girl or else I'm a failure--if that makes any sense. Or those that say it's just gonna be another boy! I realized that I am going to celebrate this baby the way I did with each of my other boys--the pure joy and excitement I had when I found out they were boys and my dream of having a boy (I came from a house of all girls). So this revelation gave me peace--at least for now...I'm just trying not to obsess over my sway.