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  1. December 26th, 2012, 11:59 AM #1
    praying4boy
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    My DH passed away...

    I joined this site in hopes to adding a boy to my family. I asked a million questions along the way. I did all the tricks to help ensure we would have a boy. Recently my DH has passed away suddenly. I am in so much pain. And now when I look at my lil girl, I think I wish she just had a sibling to keep her company. No matter if it was a boy or a girl. Now I could careless if I had a boy. Another girl would have been just fine. Just a second child. And now theirs nothing that can change that. My story is really just to share that I know we can not control gender disappointment, but it doesnt matter if a baby is a boy or girl, it is a blessing from god, and I would give anything to just have another baby with my DH. I miss him so badly.
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  2. December 26th, 2012, 12:04 PM #2
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    Oh my! What happened? How old was he? I'm so sorry.
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  3. December 26th, 2012, 12:11 PM #3
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    I'm so sorry, sending you a bug hug. Words just aren't enough, but I hope and pray that you find the strength to get through this. xxx
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    My gorgeous son has arrived!
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  4. December 26th, 2012, 12:41 PM #4
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    I am so sorry for your loss. I really can't imagine how difficult it must be. I can understand your sadness about not having another baby, regardless of the gender. Hugs to you.
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  5. December 26th, 2012, 12:51 PM #5
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    Oh my god I am so sorry!! I hope you are having a lot of support from family and friends. I cannot imagine in how much pain you must be.
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    1st cycle at **** in October 2012 - ER on 10/13: 25 eggs retrieved, 21 fertilized, 11 went to biopsy:
    9 abnormal xy, 1 abnormal xx, 1 normal xy and NO healthy girls

    Now planning to go to Dr. Potter in fall 2013. Sooo looking forward to it!

    Cannot believe it! Holding a positive pregnancy test in my hands on 1/7/13. Just like that, no help at all. Hoping and praying so hard for a
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  6. December 26th, 2012, 12:59 PM #6
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    I am so sorry for your loss. I hope you and your little girl have people there to support you both. This is heartbreaking.






    We feel blessed and happy that our family is complete.

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  7. December 26th, 2012, 01:02 PM #7
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    Prayers for you and for your daughter. You seem to be full of love for her and she is so blessed to have that!!! I will really pray for you both!
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  8. December 26th, 2012, 01:03 PM #8
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    sorry for your loss
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  9. December 26th, 2012, 01:37 PM #9
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    Praying- I am so very sorry for your profound loss. I know our words can't touch what you're feeling right now, but I think I can speak for everyone that our hearts are truly breaking for you. It's so humbling to hear something like this- and you're right, it gives us perspective about gd living in the hopes for tomorrow when we should be cherishing each day. Hugs to you and your daughter, I hope you have a good support system to hold you up.
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  10. December 26th, 2012, 01:55 PM #10
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    My heart hurts for you...
    I pray you & your beautiful daughter find peace.
    Proud mom of 3 sweet boys...
    and one BEAUTIFUL little girl!
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