♥ May 2011 Blue Cheer Squad Thread ♥

[TTC5]

Did you guys here the fat lady singing? I did cuz AF arrived today

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[TTC5]

Went shopping today for new outfit for my new job and omg I have gone from a size 8-10 max au sizing to now a 14 =(
I feel disgusting, I look awful and yeah just feel crap!!

[babydes56]

About Maca? IMHO it might be a good idea for mean only and for us Wheat Grass juice or Green Magma.

I often think about quitting the whole idea about 3rd child. But it's better to regret something you've done then something you haven't, right?
Why do you want to stop trying:
- you are functioning great like family of 6 and don't need any more?
- not enough space & money?
- DH is not full on board?
- you are afraid you will get another girl?
- all this combined?

Well all this are my reasons, esp the 1st one, we are doing great like family of 4 ( just our family make up sucks ) and my greatest fear is that I will ruin our harmony with another baby. That is what astrologist told me when I visited her before DD 2 was born: if you want a 3rd, it will be boy for sure, but very difficult child and he will ruin your life

I just laughed and said: oh, no each child is a blessing but a bug remained in my mind How ultimately stupid is that and what she knows in the 1st place.....

And of course, we don't have enough money, nor space, nor time....DH said to me few times he feels we are done and we are complete as a family. He never wanted 3 kids

At this point, I *think* I will be OK w/another girl, I have few names I really like for her ( boy name was decided before DD1 was born )

I'll keep trying until I hit 40, and then I'll stop. It's a year and a half away, hopefully I'll get pg before that, but with all that swaying, I'm thinking: maybe my body is just not designed to conceive a boy

Zivic i'm with you about hitting 40 & stopping. I have only till next Mar before i throw the towel in & say enough is enough

[babydes56]

Went shopping today for new outfit for my new job and omg I have gone from a size 8-10 max au sizing to now a 14 =(
I feel disgusting, I look awful and yeah just feel crap!!

Sorry hun, we have all put on weight. I'm a dress size bigger & not happy at all with the weight haha!

[babydes56]

Did you guys here the fat lady singing? I did cuz AF arrived today

Sorry about BFN, blue team not having much luck lately what's going on? I hope we all have better luck soon

[Zivic-Bubac]

Went shopping today for new outfit for my new job and omg I have gone from a size 8-10 max au sizing to now a 14 =(
I feel disgusting, I look awful and yeah just feel crap!!

I can totally relate...I gained 5 kg and I'm closer and closer to my weight when I was 9 months pg w/my girls

Anyway, I want to share smthg w/you guys....
This morning I ran into a sort-of-acquaintance lady ( our daughters are going in the same kindergarten) and she is very obviously pregnant lol! She has 2 girls already so I immediately asked is this baby a boy or a girl
Guess what....It's a boy....they allegedly wanted 3rd girl ( right...Are you buying that story?) I was beyond jealous, she didn't even sway and I already spent a fortune on supps etc And she is younger than me ( well everybody is, I should get used to that fact )

I felt like this like she was deliberately trying to hurt me ( how disturbed am I ?)

It was so hard to say: Congratulations....

But I got new motivation, like- just wait I will get my too. Hmmm, this doesn't sound healthy lol!

[babydes56]

I watched a fantastic programme on BBC about conception, it was so interesting to find out that over 220 milion sperm are ejaculated & only about 20 survive the journey, we also have about 20% chance of falling preg each time so if you really think about this it shows that it isnt that easy to get preg

[Zivic-Bubac]

Zivic i'm with you about hitting 40 & stopping. I have only till next Mar before i throw the towel in & say enough is enough

It's good to know I'm not alone
I'm praying you get your baby boy asap!

[babydes56]

Zivic, you crack me up! I think we all just sensitive to anyone having a boy without even trying for one. I think it's the time & money we've all spent that's getting to us now

[babydes56]

One thing i wanted to ask, are you still taking DHEA? I dont know if that's what made my period much lighter this month, i usually have AF for 4-5 days but this time it was like a full day & half then just spotting, strange..