Roll-call!! Due June/July/August 2013

[Bama Belle]

So sorry mommyof3boys. Sometimes family is not the best support system but at least you have us.

[Jadis]

OK, while I understand your sister's position, your mom's is totally hurtful. If I were in your shoes I'd have to say "Listen, we're thrilled about this baby. We're adults and are entitled to add to our family if we choose, in fact, we are the only people qualified to make decisions about our family. I hope you can be happy for us and share in our excitement. If not, no worries but please keep your judgmental questions and comments to yourself because they're hurtful." Good luck, sounds like you've got some family drama on your hands at the min.

[mummyof3boys]

hi ladies! Just thought i would pop in for a quick update
Firstly congrats to all your growing babies and to the ladies that got thier prefered gender!!!
And sorry to the ones who didnt!
So i camped for the week i bled for 5 days but not bad cramping ect stopped bleeding a few days before we came home still got to enjoy a little bit of our time away!
went to doctors when we got back he was happy with what i told him so no need for dnc or U/s he said unless i start bleeding again or have lots ofdischarge
ALSO was thinking about what someone said about lots of miscarriages i think its just the case that noone tells you if they have an early m/c but on here we do....as at the school or even with friends they dont tell u till the 12 weeks
ANYWAY i was VERY unsure about going again and as u can see from my past m/c s i have waited inbetween
so this time we have decided to start trying asap and like my previous 6 pregnancies i hope it only takes 1-2 cycles as if it takes longer we may have to put on hold as we have an over seas holiday next year to scatter my husbands fathers ashes,,,,anyway have prob had the worse 2 months of my life my fil dying and the m/c so bring on lots of positive happy vibes~~~

sorry was so long

[Mum23boys]

Fingers crossed for you hunny I really hope your time comes soon. xxxx

[Praying4Pink]

Just when I thought the worst of it was over and I just had to wait out my sister my mom started in. She didn't say anything about the way we announced it and she acted excited about it last night but in hindsight I think that was just because my grandparents live with her and she wouldnt say anything in front of them because my grandpa would stop her. Today she started texting me all kinds of questions about my birth control and saying "weren't you on the Mirena" and asking about my periods and how could this have happened, blah, blah, blah. I seriously feel like a teenager living at home telling my parents I got pregnant by a stranger not a married adult that has never asked her for help with anything.

Mommyof3 is there a reason why your family is against you having a certain amount of kids? I mean I guess I could see if you were "Duggering it out" but I think 4 is a phenomenal amount of kids if that's what your choosing is. Again, so sorry you aren't getting the support you deserve from your family. I do hope things get better for you and that your family is happy for you. ((Big Hugs))

[Praying4Pink]

hi ladies! Just thought i would pop in for a quick update
Firstly congrats to all your growing babies and to the ladies that got thier prefered gender!!!
And sorry to the ones who didnt!
So i camped for the week i bled for 5 days but not bad cramping ect stopped bleeding a few days before we came home still got to enjoy a little bit of our time away!
went to doctors when we got back he was happy with what i told him so no need for dnc or U/s he said unless i start bleeding again or have lots ofdischarge
ALSO was thinking about what someone said about lots of miscarriages i think its just the case that noone tells you if they have an early m/c but on here we do....as at the school or even with friends they dont tell u till the 12 weeks
ANYWAY i was VERY unsure about going again and as u can see from my past m/c s i have waited inbetween
so this time we have decided to start trying asap and like my previous 6 pregnancies i hope it only takes 1-2 cycles as if it takes longer we may have to put on hold as we have an over seas holiday next year to scatter my husbands fathers ashes,,,,anyway have prob had the worse 2 months of my life my fil dying and the m/c so bring on lots of positive happy vibes~~~

sorry was so long

Mummyof3 - I'm glad you stopped in and updated us! Again I am so terribly sorry about all that has happened over these past months but I am happy that you have made a decision to continue on and try again. I can't imagine how hard it must be to have a loss and then get pregnant and having that fear. You are so strong and brave and I admire you so much for that. GL honey and let us know how everything goes.

[Praying4Pink]

All I am going to say for today is...

Pinterest + Pink baby shower ideas = OBSESSING GONE WRONG! Someone please put me out of my misery.

[jennaesue]

Just when I thought the worst of it was over and I just had to wait out my sister my mom started in. She didn't say anything about the way we announced it and she acted excited about it last night but in hindsight I think that was just because my grandparents live with her and she wouldnt say anything in front of them because my grandpa would stop her. Today she started texting me all kinds of questions about my birth control and saying "weren't you on the Mirena" and asking about my periods and how could this have happened, blah, blah, blah. I seriously feel like a teenager living at home telling my parents I got pregnant by a stranger not a married adult that has never asked her for help with anything.

I'm so sorry she is giving you a hard time. I really like what Jadis said. There is no reason to be mean, but be firm that this is your decision to make, not her's, and it's not like you can do anything about it now, anyway!

My MIL gave us a hard time about our last two pregnancies. #3 was a BCP accident, so it was a surprise to us, also, but her negative remarks definitely did not help anything. #4 was planned, but she apparently didn't have any idea were were trying (even though I dropped several hints - she's kind of in her own little world.) She was shocked when we told her and the first thing she said was "Are you crazy?" and then "Was this planned?" Even though that was none of her business, we told her yes, it was, and we have been planning it for a year, and we are very happy. She has been better about this one, although she has made a few comments alluding to the fact that she thinks are eldest is going to be neglected when we have a new baby, which is ridiculous!

Anyway, sorry for that huge tangent. I hope your family shapes up and starts supporting you soon!

[jennaesue]

All I am going to say for today is...

Pinterest + Pink baby shower ideas = OBSESSING GONE WRONG! Someone please put me out of my misery.

Step away from the computer!!!

[jennaesue]

hi ladies! Just thought i would pop in for a quick update
Firstly congrats to all your growing babies and to the ladies that got thier prefered gender!!!
And sorry to the ones who didnt!
So i camped for the week i bled for 5 days but not bad cramping ect stopped bleeding a few days before we came home still got to enjoy a little bit of our time away!
went to doctors when we got back he was happy with what i told him so no need for dnc or U/s he said unless i start bleeding again or have lots ofdischarge
ALSO was thinking about what someone said about lots of miscarriages i think its just the case that noone tells you if they have an early m/c but on here we do....as at the school or even with friends they dont tell u till the 12 weeks
ANYWAY i was VERY unsure about going again and as u can see from my past m/c s i have waited inbetween
so this time we have decided to start trying asap and like my previous 6 pregnancies i hope it only takes 1-2 cycles as if it takes longer we may have to put on hold as we have an over seas holiday next year to scatter my husbands fathers ashes,,,,anyway have prob had the worse 2 months of my life my fil dying and the m/c so bring on lots of positive happy vibes~~~

sorry was so long

I am glad you are doing okay, and I wish you the best of luck with ttc!! May the next one be sticky.