To skip OPK testing, Temps and Info expo?????

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I think if you are on the HE diet, then going with the flow is fine. Thats what ended up happening with me, DP didnt sway at all except for DTD when i would tell him to, but it did get to him, and in the end i told him im giving up if it happens it happens, and it did!

Thanks Cinss, am actually on the HE diet, will definitely go with the flow next time.

[Mum to three girls]

DH freaked out when the preseed and OPKs arrived in the post so I told him I was just maximising my chances of getting preggers (cos I'm 39 now) and didn't talk about swaying or anything to him. Nothing would ever put him off BDing but I know he'd dislike it becoming "clinical". So, I didn't mention any of it. He didn't notice me on the HE diet because 90% of my diet is like that anyway and I didn't POAS for OPKs in front of him. I did ask that he stop "self releasing" which is a daily thing for him (so when we've conceived our girls he's been daily self releasing AS WELL as BDing) but said it was for enhanced sperm quality cos we're getting older and we'd a finite time for baby making in. Sorry if TMI but I used the applicator for the preseed and I'm not even convinced he noticed. Around ovulation I used a bit more but said it was cos I was nervous the baby would wake up and wasn't sure if I'd "warm up" properly.

I tried to keep it fun. One night he came home with a bottle of wine and we shared it and BDed even though it wasn't a "BD night" and even though I wasn't drinking whilst TTCing.

Anyway, I've got a BFP now at least, will just have to wait to see what colour it is!

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Congrats mum to three girls, thanks for this , I believe I became too clinical with OPKs and temps and he has never seen them before.

I am praying for blue for you and I believe you will be changing your name soon to "Mum to three girls nd a Prince"
GdL.

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MSBLAKELY, I wish you luck as well, will be good to know how it went next, will keep you informed. I really believe putiing DH in the dark will work and entice 3/4 days from AF to O as advised by Atomic.
And am planning to use OPKs and temps in the bathroom when am alone/ when DH is off to work. You can try hiding them as well. GDL dear.