How would extreme weight loss in DH affect my odds.....

[WaitingforIvy]

Dh is in the process of getting approved for gastric bypass.....would his weight loss or even the anesthesia from the surgery affect our odds of getting a girl? Would his new restricted diet sway girl? Or is it only my own weight loss that would sway girl?

[atomic sagebrush]

Unfortunately that is not an easy q to answer. Male obesity does tend to sway pink because fat cells make estrogen that can lower T levels and make sperm count and health drop. AT the same time though, losing a LOT of weight, esp. on a restrictive diet, will also shrink his muscle mass and lower T that way, plus when you lose a lot of weight sometimes it releases toxins which can affect sperm count/quality in a pink way as well.

There may be a period of time when he's begun losing weight but hasn't lost the majority of it, where he's maybe a bit more boy-friendly than he would have been otherwise, but if you use the other tactics you can overcome that easily. Then over time as he loses a significant amount, he'll become more pink friendly.