September 2013 babies!!

[Salsa]

Hey all been to the consultant this morning and found twin two doesn't have a heart beat anymore, total gutted ;-(

Oh No!!!!! Im sooooooooo sorry
I dont know what to say.
We are all here for you hun, thinking of you lots and I know you have the strength to get through this x x x x x x

[Longingforgirl]

Thorz, I don't know but I don't see boyish parts at all. The thing pointing up is way too huge for a nub, isn't it?
Still crossing my fingers for you, though I truly understand you want to prepare for another boy.

[Dreamofpink]

Thank you all!

I still can't believe it!

Good luck Thorz for your scan and good luck with your consultant Fish!!

Many congrats Northern!!! Fantantastic news!!
I'm still waiting to you join you lovely ladies with baby bumps

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[fish2012]

Thorz I don't know if that is really conclusive Hun when's your next scan?

Thanks all for good wishes bit shell shocked :-(

[divakotka]

Fish -- I am so so sorry! My heart is breaking for you. Please take good care of yourself as you start the process of mourning this little baby. Prayers that your other baby is healthy and will continue to do well...big hugs to you!

Thorz -- I really don't see anything clear on there to indicate this baby's gender. I know that in part, assuming it's a boy is a protective mechanism but really, it's just hard to tell from these pics. I am glad the baby is looking healthy though! Hang in there and don't assume it's a boy. You just don't know at this point!

[Thorz300]

Thanks ladies, you are all so nice! I think for me it is just best to plan on boy and start the healing process now! I want to be able to enjoy the 2nd trimester, as it is usually the only time I feel good. In a few months I wont even be able to walk because of my hips!!

Fish, I know I already said how sorry I am, but you are in my prayers!!

[Southern Butterfly]

Thorz- I'm glad you got to finally see your sweet baby! Like the others said I don't think I can really see a clear nub in your pics. I know how hard it can be to accept (I was a complete mess after my CLEARLY boyish nub with DS3). The one good thing was that by the time I went for my 20 week u/s I was far enough along with my GD that I was able to enjoy seeing him on the screen and start to bond with him.

I hope the doctor was wrong for you, hang in there.

[Thorz300]

Thorz- I'm glad you got to finally see your sweet baby! Like the others said I don't think I can really see a clear nub in your pics. I know how hard it can be to accept (I was a complete mess after my CLEARLY boyish nub with DS3). The one good thing was that by the time I went for my 20 week u/s I was far enough along with my GD that I was able to enjoy seeing him on the screen and start to bond with him.

I hope the doctor was wrong for you, hang in there.

Thanks, the more I think about it, when she did a potty shot, she said the cord was in the way, but I didn't see ANYTHING no cord no penis no nothing!!! I'm not going to get my hopes up because I would like to be like you, by the time this 20 week ultrasound rolls around, I would like to enjoy my little guy and be over the GD! I have prayed really hard to be ok with 4 boys, I don't think that takes away my desire for a girl, so I will still need to mourn that, however, It has definitely made my GD SO MUCH EASIER to handle this time than last. With DS3 I was a mess. I don't think I'll even cry this time if it is a boy. The power of prayer has really helped me, and I have come to realize that boy or girl, this is my special child from god that was meant to be here with me and my family!!!!! I'll be fine really I will..... But seeing baby girls will just make me sad for probably the rest of my life lol!

[Mum to three girls]

Fish, I am so so sorry.

Thorz, like I said in the USS thread if she didn't focus on the nub angle in the scan then the prediction is meaningless. There's nothing boyish in the pics, I think you're back to 50:50.

[Southern Butterfly]

Thorz you sound like you are in a really good place no matter what happens at your next scan!