September 2013 babies!!

[Mel1983]

Eh, I've been a grumpy cow for months! I was so content and happy when we were ttc, but now I'm all weighed down with guilt for talking hubby into a third, knowing he'd like a girl, and what if we have another boy.. I know it will be fine once I meet the little one in person, but I'm so cross with myself for this dismal attitude and guilty for not feeling more excited and 'in love' with this baby like I did with the boys. So instead I'm busy getting cross with myself instead of getting busy improving my attitude! Gah!

It's horrible! I feel like I've got grumpy face so touchy with everyone! Im so lazy too, i use to be so house proud always cleaning even after just having c section with second. This time I'm just sat on the sofa with my boys! Feel like a drip. Plus. Plus considering I'm only 12 weeks got huge belly and my ribs are aching! I sound like such a horrible person right now!! Hope I feel better soon! Was so looking forward for this pregnancy wish I could snap out of this!!

[Honeychild]

Totally! I feel like a lazy heffalump, I think I spotted some new stretch marks today, I'm already grunting and groaning every time I bend over, and my belly feels so full I can't imagine how it could possibly get any bigger, but it will because I'm eating like a horse and pooing like a mouse, and... Ok, at least I'm laughing at myself a bit here, otherwise a rant like that would be just plain embarrassing! I'm the stoic one, damn it! *stamps foot like a toddler having a tanty*

I'm seeing two different friends in the next couple of days who are both suffering from infertility, so hopefully that will knock some sense into me and help me to appreciate just how lucky I am. Thank goodness I've got somewhere I can vent the yucky bits though or I might go a little bit bonkers.. Well, more bonkers than usual anyway..

[Thorz300]

Diva that sounds so worth it well done for being so positive thorz would you please book a scan there and put us out of our misery ;-) post your email address we'll do a virtual whip round ;-s

Honey child thank you I have my mum staying she's taking the boys on a big day out I'm not sure i can get out of bed ;-( dh is away in India for work and I want him not all my lovely and well meaning friends ungrateful I know ;-(

I'm actually starting to consider it, $65 is still pricey for us at the moment, and I wouldn't normally do it, but DH won't be able to go to my appointment with my dr because of work and I don't want to do it alone! With DS3my husband couldn't make it either and I went alone after I heard boy, I sat in my car and sobbed all ALONE it was awful. If its a boy, I need my husband there for support and comfort, if its a girl I want to share that excitement with him! So if this place is open on Saturdaysthen I might just do it!!! I'll talk to DH and let him make the final decision!
Thanks Diva, how is the quality of their scan! Do they give you a video and pics or can we bring our own camera to record it?

[Wanting-a-girl]

do it Thorz!!!!!

[fish2012]

Ohh £40 is tempting!

I've got two scans nxt week nhs and private scan on 15 with consultant and 20 week on 23rd! Guessing by the end of that I'll know but also dreading finding out bubba has died too ;-(

Going to ask on Wednesday if they can tell me gender of twin two feel I should give him/her a name - does that seem weird?

[Northern_Shutterbug]

Ohh £40 is tempting!

I've got two scans nxt week nhs and private scan on 15 with consultant and 20 week on 23rd! Guessing by the end of that I'll know but also dreading finding out bubba has died too ;-(

Going to ask on Wednesday if they can tell me gender of twin two feel I should give him/her a name - does that seem weird?

No, it isn't weird, you need to grieve for the twin you have lost! A family friend lost a twin (it was an identical though) and they named him. His surviving brother always talked of his brother and he was like an imaginary friend he spoke to, it sounds creepy, but it was lovely! It was as though he had his angel!

Name your little angel and tell your baby of his/her brother or sister!

[Rosie85]

My husbands brother lost a twin in the womb too and has spoken of a connection as well. So sorry to hear about your babe fish. :-(

[Wanting-a-girl]

i dont think its weird at all

[fish2012]

Thank you ladies,

Northern amazing to hear an identical surviving! Thank you

[divakotka]

Thorz I think they are open until 5 on Saturdays. I do want to show you the photos but not sure how from my phone. I'll post them tonight when I get home. I also made sure to drink a ton of water this time and the tech said that I needed to hold it for her (the last place they didn't say that). Another thing I liked about this place is the tech, who said that when she had her son, she was told girl throughout her pregnancy and it was a huge shock when the baby came out as a boy. Since then, even if she is just 90% sure about the sex, she will have you come back a week later until she feels 100% confident. I hope their 65$ spring special continues a little while longer. I did not get a DVD, however. Only 4 printouts. And I don't think they let you record it.