HopingForSaskia's 12 week nub

[Bigwish]

Sorry you didn't hear pink... Just remember your third will have an own, lovely personality. He was very determinant to come to your family, that has to mean something!

[lisvna]

Im sorry hun, so my husband wasn't right.....I will spank him hihihihihihi. How are you right now? I think with 3 boys in the house and your husband you will be the queen and the boys will carry you on their hands!

[lollylegs]

I'm glad there is an answer for you Hoping, but surprised and sorry that Saskia is having you wait out and stocking a home of big brothers.
Your support and knowledge has been so essential to many of us here.
Know that we all have some inkling of what you're experiencing and that there is a great big network of women out here for you. It's our honour to support you in the grieving for your not-this-time daughter, and to also celebrate your beautiful boy.

[Ipadmad]

So sorry it wasn't the magic "it's a girl" you were desperate to hear. I too found out this week we're expecting our third boy, after doing everything in my power to sway pink.
For 3 days I just sobbed, uncontrollably at times, the sadness at never experiencing a daughter broke my heart and the guilt this feeling brought was heart wrenching. I was so angry at myself for feeling that way, when I have a gorgeous boy growing in my belly. But it is fine to feel disappointed.
After 4 days though, I am feeling more positive and excited. I went through denial, sadness, anger and acceptance. Now I can genuinely say that whilst I am still sad, I feel more positive. We are planning on how we are going to decorate the nursery, thinking of a name and I'm stupidly watching birth programmes. All of these are taking the focus away from my longing for a daughter, towards excitement at my gorgeous son, who started kicking me for the first time yesterday.
Anyway, I guess with all of this rambling, what I'm trying to say is that it does get easier. I think the immediate shock and disappointment is heart wrenching, but that does disappear and feels less raw. Even for me, just in 4 days, I feel so different to how I felt Tuesday.
Take each day as it comes, let yourself cry and come to terms with it all, focus on doing nice things, whether its eating your favourite food or putting on your favourite music. Just things that get you through each day. With time, you will get excited and thrilled with your new son, a beautiful little brother for your two boys.
Take care x

[atomic sagebrush]

I"m so sorry, but congrats on a healthy baby.

[nuthinbutpink]

I'm sorry. Hope you're okay.

[Sway&Wish]

I am betting it will be amazing in ways you can't yet imagine.

[hotdogz&boyz]

I am so sorry you did not hear pink. Your baby will be so special and loved. And he is sure to have a great name...I love your style! I hope you are taking some time for you and pampering yourself. Hugs!

[harleyquinn]

I'm sorry you didn't hear girl.

You are such a pretty lady in your picture, I bet your boys are just heart-breakers! Is your husband as good looking as you? What a beautiful family you must all be

You are three times blessed. I know it doesn't seem that way now...but someday you will busting at the seams with pride at your three handsome, wonderful boys.

Be ever so kind to yourself, I know our kids genders seem like a big deal, but its just a small portion of who we are. You are a strong, lovely lady that deserves the utmost happiness out of life, and as we all know at some point, it IS up to us how we deal with our cards. I have made up my mind that having all boys is something wonderful and I refuse to be sad about something wonderful. I hope you get there too <3

[Honeysucklelanegirl]

Sorry you didn't hear pink. I hope maybe you have another chance......you never know.Hope you are ok.xxx