Is it possible to suffer GD before even conceiving

[retrolove1]

I'm the same, I think it's the not knowing if it will be another lovely boy or a pretty little girl. We arn't TTC until April but I just want to know.

I hope you get a sticky bean and it is a lovely daughter *Ruby*

xx

[mariposa]

HI ladies, I´m the same, too. I´m doing my best with diet, have bought jellies, supps, have changed hundreds of times my plan...and can avoid think that nothing is for sure, that all depends of ONE sperm between millions.....I can´t stop thinking anything else. I´m TTC in may. I wish you get your dream!

[Pink rose]

Gd is horrid we spend our days wishing for some thing we don't have, something that's way beyond our control. I hate the way it makes me feel, I hate that it never leaves me - as much as I love my sons there is not a single day goes by without me longing and wishing for a daughter. I have 2 boys and so afraid to try again incase it dosent work out.

[Mrs_P]

i had horrific gd with ds3 and i was determind not to go there again but it hit me with this one very early on - especially after i got my bfp as it felt like my last chance had gone. I wasn't prepared for how it would hit me as i spent a lot of time fighting it before ttc again but in the end i think it was the not knowing - i think and still do i could handle the outcome whatever happened (even if this little one turns out to be a boy i'd be disappointed but ok). I spent a long time separating my feelings for my boys (who are my world) from my longing for a girl and was starting to move on without her but i think once you head down that path and start to ttc those feelings are natural as its something you want so bad you actually have a chance - especially when swaying its adds to the suspense and hope.

My advice would be don't punish yourself the feelings are natural and to expected and find out as soon as you can (i have seen too many girls tourching themselves with the what ifs, whatever babe is has already been determined at conception and even if you are disappointed the peace of mind from knowing really helps and you will love your baby either way) - i found a good tech when i had my cvs test done at 12+ weeks and she sexed babe from the nub

[Hopeful37]

Yes, I feel the same way. I'm very nervous trying for a 3rd. Two kids are more then enough for me but I really want that girl. Unfortunately there are no refunds and we are so to speak " stuck" with the sex we don't want. So we all really have to do some soul searching and decide if u will be okay with getting the sex you really don't want...again.
As for me, it's a big decision to try for a third. My little one will be 3 and we are just now able to really start doing things and going places. But wanting this girl so bad, I am willing to give up another few yrs of really doing stuff or going places .

[juneluv11]

I'm in the same boat. I haven't even started and for some reason, I just feel like getting our is not in our future.
I have a feeling if we TTC we'd end up with our third girl. Sad to say, I don't want another DD.
The past few weeks, I've been really trying to find out as much as I can about having a third. (Are we financially ready?? How much would we have change our lifestyle? How would having another sister (possibly) affect my other two daughters? Shouldn't I just be happy with the 2 children I have?

Arghh!!! All of this really sucks! But, ultimately would I regret not trying?? I'm 36 and feel like my time is running out!