♥ May 2011 Blue Cheer Squad Thread ♥

[iluvmyman]

I need the PH tester for my EW's too. I sure hope it's the batteries. I've got to log off soon and deal with the day.

wrong, my batteries are good, I had it on the wrong setting. That means my PH tester is done broke. You've got to be kidding me! I did want it for my EW's. I have treated that thing w/ kid gloves. I can't belive this!! AUGH!

I'm not anal about my PH either and will DTD regardless. It is disappointing though, I'm not gonna lie. If that's natural for my body I've had two other boys before so it will be what it will be I guess. I'm not waiting.

[LolaInLove]

I did the Big O before and after on our attempts too. Lot of pressure to preform to get the big O though and it takes a while before, even w/ help. LOL!

OMG tell me about it! When we first started swaying, I was like "make me have an orgasm first" and so much pressure, it was not really fun....now, and sorry tmi....but maybe it will help someone have an easier go at the attempt, because it is MUCH easier for me....

This is what I do, in order- when it's about an hour from sex time, I do a bsf and DH has a caffeine drink. We both take a Mucinex. Then, right before, I excuse myself to the bathroom to insert preseed and "freshen up" which means insert preseed and make myself have a big orgasm in there so I know the preseed is up in my cervix more and that my natural cm has a little elevated ph boost from the orgasm also. Then, we go dtd and I have no pressure to do that....and we do it doggy style and I can't orgasm that way anyway, so I just flip and prop afterwards. That's it. But, having a self-O beforehand when I put in the preseed helps A TON I think.

[LolaInLove]

ILuv, I'm not sure what your bd belief/plan is....if you are going for one shot or a couple of them 48 hours apart or whatever, but if it was me, I'd go for it asap, and then again when you have your +. If you are going for one shot, then wait as long as your DH has released no longer than 3 days ago.

[3Pink1Blue]

Lola - I agree about the info in IG, not clear and you got chastised if you ask for clarification. Yet another reason I love it here, there is no dumb question.

Cemas - yep, I'm jensgirls. New site, new name

Tink - boo for early af.

Begonia - I quit testing my pH as well. It has risen a bit since starting to sway but it since refuses to budge and it makes me feel like a failure.

Light - I'm with Lola, see if you can talk him into a daily but if not I know some crazy unhealthy men who have son's. I've come to believe it's so much more about us. Also a lot of dh's sups are to raise sperm count and make his swimmers healthier, explain his sups are about super sperm not swaying

iluv - I feel ya on the pressure for the big O, ironic to find it such a hassle lol


Damn you ladies have been chatty this morning. I return one e-mail and bam 10 more posts lol 5dpo here, tick tick tick.

[gizmo77]

OMG tell me about it! When we first started swaying, I was like "make me have an orgasm first" and so much pressure, it was not really fun....now, and sorry tmi....but maybe it will help someone have an easier go at the attempt, because it is MUCH easier for me....

This is what I do, in order- when it's about an hour from sex time, I do a bsf and DH has a caffeine drink. We both take a Mucinex. Then, right before, I excuse myself to the bathroom to insert preseed and "freshen up" which means insert preseed and make myself have a big orgasm in there so I know the preseed is up in my cervix more and that my natural cm has a little elevated ph boost from the orgasm also. Then, we go dtd and I have no pressure to do that....and we do it doggy style and I can't orgasm that way anyway, so I just flip and prop afterwards. That's it. But, having a self-O beforehand when I put in the preseed helps A TON I think.

good to know!!! esply after inserting preseed or EW! theres no way id be able to have an O during doggie style..i HATE that position but will practice and try it!

[iluvmyman]

OMG tell me about it! When we first started swaying, I was like "make me have an orgasm first" and so much pressure, it was not really fun....now, and sorry tmi....but maybe it will help someone have an easier go at the attempt, because it is MUCH easier for me....

This is what I do, in order- when it's about an hour from sex time, I do a bsf and DH has a caffeine drink. We both take a Mucinex. Then, right before, I excuse myself to the bathroom to insert preseed and "freshen up" which means insert preseed and make myself have a big orgasm in there so I know the preseed is up in my cervix more and that my natural cm has a little elevated ph boost from the orgasm also. Then, we go dtd and I have no pressure to do that....and we do it doggy style and I can't orgasm that way anyway, so I just flip and prop afterwards. That's it. But, having a self-O beforehand when I put in the preseed helps A TON I think.

I love it! Smart move to O to get the preseed up there. Can't do that w/ Ew's since they'd just all fall out, but good move. TMI Warning all! I have never been able to have the big O w/o some hand held help mostly or a lot of work down there w/ me running the helm, but no internal O's ever. I've had a hard time w/ reaching the Big O when DH is paying attention. I wish it wasn't that way but I can't help it. We have rockin BD life, that's just hard for me. So adding the pressure to preform is tough. I ask him to leave the room after so I can have the Big O again in peace. I'm so ashamed but it is what it is. LOL! Better to reach the Big O alone then not at all, especially when it comes to Doing the baby dance!

[gizmo77]

OH I didn't see this post. I won't take royal jelly anymore ..I will just take the same supplements as I did with my DS.

just curious, MFC, what made you add or change your supplements this time around (doing it differently from what you took with DS1?)

[iluvmyman]

ILuv, I'm not sure what your bd belief/plan is....if you are going for one shot or a couple of them 48 hours apart or whatever, but if it was me, I'd go for it asap, and then again when you have your +. If you are going for one shot, then wait as long as your DH has released no longer than 3 days ago.

My bd/belief plan is forever changing......Leaning towards just going for it but I'll see how i feel tonight. I don't want a BFN again. My priorities are all over the place. I'll just have to wait and see I guess. I think maybe DTD tonight and tomorrow night. Hmmmm....thanks for your input.

[gizmo77]

I was thinking about that too, w/the repeated bsf the week of or so because it's effecting the PH in the hoo haa, and not the PH of cm in the cervix. Now having done the BS drinks are different. I think Atomic thought the only benifit would be to help kill off girl sperms but that's it.

I think I might do the bsf them couple hours before attemp then EW's w/ attempt or no bsf at all. My ph is low though but need to check if O today.

Lola, I hate to bring this up but am a little scared of the preseed. Did you had 2 m/c's using it? I've read other people's comments (not on this site) that they are convinced their m/c's were caused by preseed. I've never had to experience and m/c and am scared to use it. I'm sure there is no way to know for sure and I probably won't either way but I just timidly throw that out there to you.

make ssense about the BSF the week of O up to O. the only reason why i can see ppl doing it is to 'regulate' the high pH so as to gaurantee a high pH..just talking out of my a$$! ;-)

[3Pink1Blue]

We gave up on doggy style, we do a modified missionary that allows for deep penetration, easy O and no rolling over. This is a little graphic (it's animated) but much easier then trying to explain it. Sorry if anyone is offended or it's way tmi

http://www.sexinfo101.com/sp_deepstick.shtml

iluv- I have the same problem, have to take things into my own hands so to speak. I can have a combo but not just inside, the above position is great for letting you get "involved" lol