♥ May 2011 Blue Cheer Squad Thread ♥

[iluvmyman]

well, I don't even know what to say seems like everyone is going through it. I would just like to say I hope come June we all get everything we are looking for and June starts off more positive.

Maybe this will start the positive vibe. The past few weeks were the scariest weeks of my life. A few weeks ago I went to the doctor because I wasn't feeling good. I had all kinds of blood work done, and then my Doctor feels my left breast and he finds a lump. He asks me if I had a mammogram before, I say no. He said do you have family history of Breast cancer. I said yes, 3 aunts have passed, my grandma and great grandma. He ordered and immediate mammogram. I am 29, apparently the youngest mammogram done in my doctors office ever. I waited 2 weeks for my result, when it came back negative I was obviously so happy. But I can still go in for genetic testing, they can find out if I am a carrier of the gene and I have options if I want. But What and eye opener at 29. I am very thankful for my life right now and what I have. Hugs to you all. xxoo

Really puts things into perspective, huh. Sorry you went through that scare but so glad you are OK and they will watch you closely. Hopefully June will be a good month for all!

[princessap]

Tink. sorry you went through that and had to wait two weeks for results. Glad everything went went and fingers crossed for bfp for you soon!

[iluvmyman]

Iluv....we lost our son in October and my cycles were normal and then went crazy. My OB
said that after a loss it can take a while for
cycles to normalize again. My OB is against supplements and meds which arent necessary as i had asked for
clomid to straighten them out. Maybe it will just take some time. I have never taken supplements and actually dont agree with it (but lots of women on her do). i only take folic acid and conceived our son before so
dont think they are necessary to get a boy (again just my personal opinion). I have seen lots in my nursing experience and it just isnt something I am comfortable with. We all have to do what we are comfortable with. I am comfortable with just doing diet and will be happy with boy or girl. I just really want to be pregnant. We all have to
do what we are comfortable with. We are in such similar places in our lives, you and I, and I hope it all works out for both of us!

Jen, we are gloomy gus's this month. Maybe we are preparing ourselves so
we wont be disappointed with a
BFN.

I am emotional this week too so really thinking AF is going to show up early. I actually
didnt use OPks this month but pretty sure I am 4dpo.

Good luck to those girls in 2ww. who is
close to testing?? We need some BFPs on here soon!!!

Hope it all works out for you!! We are in such similar places right now that one of us needs a BFP soon!!

Thanks Princess! I think I'm way scared too since we are supposed to get the results of our autopsy as soon as maybe next week but still not sure. They said they would get to his results "next" and to call back if we haven't gotten a letter as of next Wed. I told DH last night that I was afraid if we didn't get a BFP before the results then he might tell me no again. And he just nodded like it was a possibility. It might overall the right thing in the big picture but I will be devastated if he changes his mind again.
Losing children is just the most terrible thing.
I will definitly be re-evaluating my sway. Clomid is a little scary with the girl sway part but I doubt my Dr. will jump on that anyway. I was glad to hear you had a cycle like this, it makes me feel more normal. Really bad timing though, Cycle!!

[3Pink1Blue]

iluv - My cycles were perfect for 5 months after my d&c then my body freaked. My midwife said your body can go right back to business and a few months later realize something is a miss so go crazy till it's fixed. I know the situations aren't the same but to some extend bodies all deal the same. FX you'll straighten out soon.

tink - so scary, glad you are ok. Are you going to have the genetic test done?


omg we, as a group, so need a bfp!

[Tink18]

Princess and I luv, I just want to hug you ladies so bad, I cant even imagine, And I know I can hug ILUV as we have figured out we are only miles away from each other. MAybe we need need to plan a day together to just cry this all out and give each other some good positive vibes and it will all be ok and then we can be pregnant together and go on this journey together!

As far as testing, yes I will be doing the testing. I would like to see if I am a carrier. I know what my options are if I am a carrier. I will cross that bridge later in life when i am done having babies and breast feeding. It's scary. but My family is way more important.

I agree someone does need a BFP soon, I haven't started my diet yet, I did just get all my stuff in the mail, my ovulating stick my PH sticks and my thermometer! it was like Christmas!! But AF is here! I cant play with anything! boooooo!

I really want to TTC right now! But i have to be in my cousins wedding in OCT. That is the only thing holding me back is a black dress hanging in my closet that is already my size. Fits me fine. And she would be mad if i was obviously pregnant on her DAY. SO i can get away with AUG at earliest!

[skrimpy]

Hey gals, I have been MIA from the blue club thread for a couple weeks due to just wanting to focus on getting ready for my little one. She is finally here Here's the thread with a pic for you - I know you girls wanted one! http://genderdreaming.com/forum/show...d-baby-is-here!

Looking forward to snuggling with her for a couple of weeks then I will get back to personals and keep up with you lovely ladies. Hopefully lots of blue bfp's coming

[iluvmyman]

Congrats Skrimpy and welcome back. She is beautiful.

[TTC5]

I guess my urine was diluted yesterday when i did the opk & got a negative because i've just tested today & it's +. So here's wot we've done, Wed opk+, 4 days abstinence so dtd, Thurs dtd again although i had - opk (urine diluted) & today opk +. My temps havent gone up but will probably tomorrow. Should i dtd again today?

I'm a bit bummed because the false negative test yesterday threw me off, if i had known it would be positive today i'd have waited 48hrs & dtd today. Well what's done is done, just waiting for ovulation confirmation. Cramps here & there nothing too strong

FX for you!!

[TTC5]

Eh, it just makes me sad. But I'm feeling sorry for myself, clearly. It stings because he was so abusive to me and now everything goes so well in his life....it's just hard sometimes (COME ON, KARMA!!!! WHERE ARE YOU????). Anyway, it is what it is. Diet is going fine...I have no appetite, so really not eating much at all. Will start being healthier and eating more and doing diet again at beginning of July. I think we will ttc in August, but I've only got 3 months left in me to actually try, then we are just going to NTNP (not trying not preventing) because I'm getting tired of this.

Ok, thank you Karma. That Natalie Merchant song "Jealousy" just came on the radio. Clearly that is my problem.

xoxoxox

[TTC5]

Well.....you could have a couple of glasses of wine and TRY it one night, I guess? I think you might enjoy that, once you get over feeling timid about it. Maybe tell him you are open to that but he must make you feel comfortable and all, not get up and stare are you like you are a porn star or anything. I know, right, 3pnb, that makes me icked out also.

I have the freaking opposite problem, though....my DH is more reserved that I wish he was.

The things we do to get a boy lol! No wonder I have soo many girls... all I had to do was lay there hahaha