
Originally Posted by
LolaInLove
Princess, hope this is it for you also....and you Babydes, I think you are fine but like I said earlier, I'd maybe do one more try tonight to seal the deal. And hey, if you are having a good time (thanks to testosterone and preseed!), they why not, eh?
Thanks for lifting my spirits about this ex baby thing. I think you gals are right, I just want to see something NOT go right for them, but that is a really crappy karma thing on my part. And they probably have a terrible marriage, I cannot imagine any woman being happy with him, he is a miserable crazy-maker. I literally almost went totally crazy until I finally realized that if I stayed with him, it would only be a matter of years before I was completely depressed and an alcoholic or something....and I didn't want that for my baby girls either, so I split. Anyway, he just continually jabs me at every opportunity. My current DH wants to SLAY him, but I tell him it's my battle and he didn't sign up for that, just for me and the girls when we got married.
Anywhoooooo......ok, SEX topic again......TTC5, I wish my DH wanted to do that. I am actually having a hard time getting him to try new things. I am afraid to damage his ego for many reasons, but I have told him that he needs to step it up in learning how to make me O. I used to do what Spicy did with others pre-DH (and even ex-DH) where while dtd, either he or I would help myself out. But current DH doesn't know, I don't think he's had a woman be like, "Ok, buddy, here's the deal, SOMEONE has to work this thing here or I'm not happy." Once he's back in town, we are going to work on this, because with ttc for the last 9 months and all, our sex life has not progressed like it should. I may go to the sex toy store after work and see what they have that might be enticing. But this is the only way we can make things more spicy, is to communicate and try new stuff, so I say go for it TTC5 and just don't be inhibited, it will probably be AMAZING!
Iluv, girl, I would post a thread on the ttc forum here about your bleeding in hopes that Atomic will answer.....I don't think it's possible to have AF 2 weeks early, but I don't know.....that makes me a little worried for you. You know, if you recall from her threads, she was pg with twins and lost one, which she thought was AF, then thought she was back to square one when the other twin was still doing well. I know you said you had a negative hpt, so that is likely not the case, but do post your issue because the collective wisdom on this site will definitely help!
TTC5, so sorry you are sick! I would not hesitate at all to do the vapor rub and steam. I don't know if you plan to still attempt this month in lieu of being sick, but if you do, just don't take any cold meds that dry you up! I REALLY don't put much stock in ions and moon phase and all that stuff, because like 3pnb, I would have boys. I don't disregard it completely, like, it makes me happy when it lines up for a boy now when we attempt, but I don't hold off because of it. I hope you feel better, hun! How's your momma?