September 2013 babies!!

[Longingforgirl]

Fish and also Girlsway, wishing you both very good luck for tomorrow!! I am hoping for good news tomorrow...!!!

Thorz, oh no, poor you!! That must really hurt. Great that your mom can help you out!

WAG, oh no, that must have scared the hell out of you!! I would have been the same! DS2 is the same, he doesen't care about anything, always in his own world. He does know the rules, but it's like as if they just don't apply for him. He is not thinking at all and that drives me so crazy. The other day, he just started running when we got out of the hotel. The street there is huge, so many cars and trucks driving by, and he literally only looks just in front of his feet. He doesen't see anything that is one foot away from him. Ugh!
We are at a children's psychologist every other week because of him. But I am not sure if "only" that is going to help. He is so in his own world.

Northern, always thinking about you and your family. Evelyn Rose is so beautiful!!! It is so heartbreaking.

[fish2012]

Northern lovely picture of Evelyn, couldn't work out the link but will try later thinking of you xx

[Honeychild]

I'm back from a trip away and I was going to try and do a general catch up, but I've just been reading your blog Northern, and sitting here in floods of tears, wishing there was something I could say that would ease even a tiny bit of your heartbreak. Evelyn is beautiful. She has touched all our hearts and we will remember her.

[Mel1983]

Just had my scan at 17 1/2 weeks and lady said she thinks a girl, there were 3 bright lines on potty shot. She didn't give me a copy of the shot though so I can't post it. Can't quite believe it , I have 2 boys already and never imagined I would ever hear the words Girl!!!

[Wanting-a-girl]

Congrats Mel!

Ya ds1 drive me insane literally... It's sad cause I always feel so mad at him cause it's always one thing after another it never ends... It's straining my mother son relationship with him cause I feel like I can barley stand him sometimes... I expect him to be good and listen and be respectful ... I tell him all the time he takes advantage of his mental health and should thank god for being a normal boy cause his brother will never be able to have normalcy... I feel maybe I'm harder on him because of that

[fish2012]

Mel congrats that's great 17.5 week should be fairly clear congrats yeah fx for a healthy lill lady

Wag I think maybe we're all harsh on our first borns ;-) as my ds1 now 3 n 4 months I expect him to be really grown up as he was only 15 months when ds2 was born and I couldn't cope with two babies! Now I see 15 month olds (and my own ds2 who's nearly two) and think hmmm I was probably still am hard in him! Oh we'll all evidence suggests first borns have lots of advantages maybe high expectations is good for them!

don't stress as an only child I find the whole treating equally but different hard to get my head around but this is even more true for you where your ds2 has more difficulties to over come , if you were a bad mum you wouldn't be self aware enough to notice! Xx

[Northern_Shutterbug]

Thank you all for your messages of kindness. I'm sorry but I can't keep coming back, I'm really struggling and missing my baby girl so much, coming here reminds me of the joys that should have been.

Good luck to you all. Fish, I hope things go well for your little girl, I wouldn't wish our experience on my worst enemy and hope none of you ever have to go through it. At the moment I feel I'm in a hole and honestly don't feel strong enough to get out.

Best of luck x

[pebmcpd7]

Big hugs to you and your family northern, I will pray for you.

[fish2012]

Northern I understand how you feel i have felt the same myself and my situation has not yet got anywhere near as bad as yours honey,
love and prayers to you and your family - you know where we are if there is anything we can do for you let us know

So sorry for you xxxxx

[Wanting-a-girl]

Sorry for your loss northern and I totally understand you not coming back... We are all thinking of you