September 2013 babies!!

[4Giffins]

DLTAG I have suggested that he choose the middle name and call him that if he would like. I think that is a good compromise! Im sure we can come to some sort of agreement but Im so scared to even bring it up for the possibility of him shooting it down! I really wont let it go and dont want to have to turn it into a fight! The one night we briefly discussed it he brought up the nick name thing and kind of turned his nose up..I got mad and wouldnt talk to him the rest of the night and havent brought it up since! I need to get a backbone instead of just pouting about it!!

WAG..Im glad you dont let anyone influence your decision on names! Our names are a little different too(Fallan and Haven) but unfortunitely I always worry about what ppl think and let that influence my decision! So if I am set on a name and know I love it no matter what I dont tell anyone! I know I would get a few ppl turning their nose up at it and it would make me second guess our choice so usually we dont tell anyone before we have the baby! Of course Im always a little worried about ppl stealing it as well! Lol

[4Giffins]

WAG you're ballsy - I wouldn't be that brave

4griffins i think slow and steady and i agree with daltag don't have something you're unuse about

mel omg stalking you ;-0

I agree! You are very brave WAG!! Haha! Slow and steady for sure Fish!! Maybe if I just let him think it over without me pressuring him he will end up bringing it up again and be on board? I can always hope!!

[4Giffins]

BTW DLTAG I really like Oakley for a girl as well! It was on my list with DD2 but of course DH said no! Im really thinking a "danny month" might be a good idea! Lol..I alread know what he would be requesting though and Im not sure its worth it!

[Thorz300]

I hear you, I like the name Tate for this little guy, but DH doesn't like it, and at this point I don't care!!!! I have let him have the final say in all the other 3 boys names and this time, I didin't get my girl, so I am naming this guy what ever I want! I know that sounds harsh but DH has had the final say in with the first 3 boys and always used the excuse that I would have the final say when we had a girl. Well it looks like that isn't gonna happen so this is my final baby and I AM PICKING THE NAME. (although with all the other boys names, they were names that I picked and DH just liked them and then wouldn't budge after settling on the one he liked from the ones I suggested).

[Mum to three girls]

I'm not sure about names either. We have quite conservative names for the girls (Lucy, Matilda and Violet) but they're not currently "top 10" names either. DH has a relatively common name now but 30 odd years ago it was less so and he says he hated it and wants this baby to have something solid and standard. I don't hate his suggestions, they're just a bit boring. I think we'll get it down to a short list and negotiate thereafter. I think with some men as well (my DH included) the pregnancy doesn't feel real until the baby is nearly born and they don't always understand our need to get things sorted NOW!

Thorz, I know this is the last thing you need to hear but I do think there's still a good chance you're carrying a girl.

[fish2012]

good luck mel

[DLTAG89]

Good luck mel, looking forward to your update

4Giffins good luck if you do a "danny month" i think it made DH feel better that he was getting something out of me picking both middle names. It wasnt much fun for me though

Mum23 Lucy is a great name (its mine) so you have great taste. I love violet too. Me and both DH have really common names (Lucy and Danny) and went through our school life as Lucy H and Danny G so i'm trying to stay away from popular names as but the only one me and DH both seem to like is Evie which is sooo popular at the min. So she might end up being know as Evie G for her school life. I would have loved to have a bit more of an uncommon name and tried to do the same for the boys so they wouldnt have this problem.

This naming lark is hard work!

[Salsa]

Stalking Mel!! Not sure what our time difference is... Im sure you will hear pink again! Hope you get some pics to show us x

[fish2012]

salsa her appointment was 30 mins ago!

fx mel hoping for some pinky news xxx

[Thorz300]

Good luck Mel!!! Hope you still hear pink!

FINALLY my scan is tomorrow! Geez what a long wait!!!