update on my weight loss

[AMY]

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[atomic sagebrush]

Sorry I hadn't had a chance to get back with you.

You're not crazy, but gender desire can mess with a person's head and it's sometimes hard to snap out of it on yoru own without help.

You do not need to insert sperm into your cervix manually, they can swim. If it is BFN this month, I would try to disengage from the pressure and stress involved, get some Preseed, and do it the old-fashioned way. The Preseed may help your husband and it will also make up for any lack of CM. Messing around with your cervix can be harmful so please don't do that any more.

I can't answer the question of how likely it is that you got pregnant or what gender your baby would be.

Sending and (((Hugs))) for you and DH.

[AMY]

Thanks atomic. I really appreciate that you give me answers to all my questions. I have nobody IRL to talk to. The shrink was no help and hubby is getting really angry when I bring it up. I am still really worried and regret that I did not do it different because I keep reading that the sperm that is close to cervix will make boys. So with my sperm rubbing on cervix I feel really bad. On top of all that I felt so releaved from dieting that I had a huge salty pizza at O+20. I read that the egg only lives up to 18 hours and I thought since last BD was 10 hours ago I treat myself with a big beuatiful Pizza Hawai... Now I feel even worse. I kept reading that sperm is through the cervix within 2 hours and I just figured that conception must have already taken place if. I tried not to eat yesterday all day after breakfast to keep bloodsugar low but at 8 in the evening I could not wait any longer and I ordered Pizza with my son. I am so worried about this all. I think if I don't get pregnant this month I will stop trying for a while. I noticed I cannot deal with the pressure anymore at all.

[AMY]

Old fashioned way with him in me doesnt work for him with all this time realted stress. He was able to come a week ago with no problem pretty quick but he is really turned off by another kid and stress at work. He only wants to make me happy. I feel really bad for pushing him this way but I don't know what else to do. That's how we ended up using the syringe because he could't come at all inside of me.

[atomic sagebrush]

Thanks atomic. I really appreciate that you give me answers to all my questions. I have nobody IRL to talk to. The shrink was no help and hubby is getting really angry when I bring it up. I am still really worried and regret that I did not do it different because I keep reading that the sperm that is close to cervix will make boys. So with my sperm rubbing on cervix I feel really bad. On top of all that I felt so releaved from dieting that I had a huge salty pizza at O+20. I read that the egg only lives up to 18 hours and I thought since last BD was 10 hours ago I treat myself with a big beuatiful Pizza Hawai... Now I feel even worse. I kept reading that sperm is through the cervix within 2 hours and I just figured that conception must have already taken place if. I tried not to eat yesterday all day after breakfast to keep bloodsugar low but at 8 in the evening I could not wait any longer and I ordered Pizza with my son. I am so worried about this all. I think if I don't get pregnant this month I will stop trying for a while. I noticed I cannot deal with the pressure anymore at all.

Sperm close to the cervix doesn't make boys, ALL sperm both X and Y needs to pass through the cervix to get to the egg! If you didn't get X sperm through the cervix, you wouldn't get pg. But my concern about that is that you could hurt yourself (the cervix is not meant to be handled like that) and could introduce microorganisms that could cause an infection in your uterus.

RE the pizza, first of all I find it unlikely that sodium even sways. Secondly, you have no way of knowing when you ovulated, it is impossible to tell your ovulation time to the hour. thirdly and most importantly, PLEASE do not avoid eating all day long. That has never ever ever been written anywhere on this website by me and is not at all my advice. In fact, it is a surefire way for your body to delay ovulation for peopel who haven't yet ovulated and could even "convince" your body to prevent pregnancy if you have already ovulated. The best thing for your blood sugar is to just keep eating in the pattern that you already are.

I think you are on the right track in taking a break. I am really, really concerned about you Amy.

[atomic sagebrush]

Old fashioned way with him in me doesnt work for him with all this time realted stress. He was able to come a week ago with no problem pretty quick but he is really turned off by another kid and stress at work. He only wants to make me happy. I feel really bad for pushing him this way but I don't know what else to do. That's how we ended up using the syringe because he could't come at all inside of me.

This is going to end up destroying your marriage and your family, please consider taking a break to focus on your relationship and regaining your equilibrium.

[AMY]

This is going to end up destroying your marriage and your family, please consider taking a break to focus on your relationship and regaining your equilibrium.

I know what you mean. Thanks for taking your time and responding to my posts. I am currently thinking how to proceed and get my health back. I am waiting for my period, hasn't arrived yet and I am trying to focus on a healthier lifestyle. I assume that it has to be low egg quality that prevented me from getting pregnant this time. I am thinking of using natural remedies to help with ovulation and egg quality. I gotta get my cycle back. Health insurance will only cover 3 rounds of gonal f injectables and I am so done w clomid and all the side effects.
Crossing my fingers for all Ladies out there trying to get their girls....
THanks for your help Atomic!

[atomic sagebrush]

You are very welcome and please keep us posted with how you are doing. Thinking of you. xx

[AMY]

wanted to update. I am pregnant. I went to doc yesterday and he found out. Its on time, 6 weeks, I hve gained to my original weight and I took all suplements possible to avoid menopause, I also took dhea... 25mg. for a week before conception. I concieved unbelievable but true with the syringe after gonal f and ovitrelle. The doc saw three follicles but obviously only one took... and I swear if this turns into a viable pregnany this will be boy nr. 3.
good luck to all of you, i think swaying doesnt work with some women because their bodies react different. in this year i have lost 8 kilos and gained back 11. It wasnt even a year...I lost within 5 month 8 kilos and my BMI was 16. I lost my period in January while I was on an anti androgen pill. The doctor stimluted twice with Clomid and twice with Gonal F. The last cycle I took crinone after ovulation and this one tock, I did not expect pregnancy so I stopped crinone 10 days after ovulation and now its 22 days after and here I am pregnant. I am still on Metformin and because of the weight loss my thyroid went wacky and I have to take thyroid med. I don' feel very female anymore so I assume also because of DHEA I made another boy...
and I forgot to tell, my AMH went from 2.6 down to 0.7 in March, I started supplementing with vit D and got it back to 1.5. I think vit D also sways blue.... whatever, I am still loosing hair...and was hoping that vit d could help. my vit d went from too low at 15 to 60!!!I think I did a perfect blue sway...my bmi is 20.5 now....

[Little Lunasa]

Congrats on your bfp I have been following your story and am delighted for you. Fx you get your DG
Xx


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