I was absolutely petrified. But if you don't fall pregnant, there is no chance of getting your boy, if you do, you have at least a 50% chance of success, even if you do nothing else.
And a 100% chance of a baby who you will love regardless even if you don't like that you didn't get your dream gender.
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June 11th, 2013, 09:41 PM #11Dreamer
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June 11th, 2013, 10:12 PM #12
I feel like that sometimes too. Too many what ifs. :/ I just wish I could know for sure what the outcome will be.
Last edited by sbowman; June 11th, 2013 at 10:18 PM.
[2] healthy baby boy born in 2011
[21 weeks] Nov. 2012 Went for a scan at 20 weeks, baby measured 17+6, came back for a follow up scan and baby had passed away.
Lots of testing, no answers.
Moving on without my son's brother. Starting our HT journey in 2014.
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June 12th, 2013, 09:19 AM #13Dreamer
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I was too scared to get pregnant again and use my last chance at a daughter after 3 boys and I was almost going to let dh get the snip. next thing im pregnant! universe has decided for me I don't know what im having yet and im scared of my feelings if it's a boy but I also feel blessed to be having one more... such a mixture of feelings argh.....
Boy 2003
Boy 2006
Boy 2009
boy number 4 Dec 2013
Cyprus Team Miracle Oct/Nov 2017 10 eggs retrieved, 9 mature, 8 fertilised, 7 to testing, 3 healthy xx
transferred 2 AA xx BFP Nov 10th 2 heartbeats seen and heard at 7.5 weeks
10 week scan one twin fetal demise 8 weeks, one healthy heartbeat seen.
Baby Girl Born 13th July 2018 my world is finally complete!
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June 15th, 2013, 08:54 PM #14Dream Newbie
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I'm already dreading the gender ultrasound and I'm not even pregnant yet, nor even TTC again for another month or two. I really want a DD2, but if it's a boy, I wish I could just know already that it will so I can start being OK with it. The waiting is so hard.
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June 24th, 2013, 04:26 AM #15Dream Newbie
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i have major baby fever but am scared to have another boy. I love my son, but I yearn for a daughter next.
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June 25th, 2013, 09:59 PM #16Dream Vet
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I sure am I've been doubting myself and have had a fw arguments with my dh when I tell him "let's just keep it this way" he gets so upset, but I know I would be upset in the longrun for not even trying. All I can do is pray and leave it and God's hands. I can only give it a try at swaying (it won't hurt to try)...just makes me nervous as heck! lol
DS1DS2
DS3
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June 28th, 2013, 01:33 AM #17
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