New and TTC Pink - Need help!

[krickyk26]

Hello,

Joined a few days ago. Thinking about purchasing a personalized sway plan but we have so much going on that I'm not sure swaying is a good idea or realistic. Would appreciate advice.

I just turned 35, dh will be 38. We have twin boys and a third boy. We are fertility-challenged, at least we used to be. Haven't been tested in 5 years. We charted and timed everything for 12 + months to get our first BFP. We got that BFP a few days after learning that DH had low motility (3%). IVF was recommended. We used instead cups and preseed for the first time that month and basically did an at home version of AI using instead cups. Had no idea we had conceived twins until our anatomy scan. They were spontaneous. The third boy was a surprise after really no BC and no charting for 2 years.

DH is diabetic, on high blood pressure meds, and has polycystic kidney disease. His conditions and his meds cause severe bouts of ED which makes it difficult to do FR and it's easy for him to abstain for much longer than 14 days.

I have had gastric bypass (pre-kids), have thyroid disease, and have newly diagnosed anemia (number was below 9 and doc seemed really concerned about it, mentioned if it got much lower we might be looking at tranfusion). I'm on 3 iron pills a day and it's slowly going up.

Dh's kidney function is poor and he may be facing dialysis in a year or so, a transplant after than, so we don't have a ton of time to try.

We'd like to do what we can to sway pink but obviously not so much that we can't get pregnant at all. Just not sure where that line falls. Any advice? Should we invest in a personalized plan?

[Little Lunasa]

I would definitely recommend a personal plan
Best of luck!

[Cauliflower]

Recommenng the personalised sway plan!

[coralsky]

Me three!

I also have a few issues, as I know from previous failed ivf attempts that my egg quality is not great, so atomic tweaked my plan to help with that without swaying blue too much...definitely worth it, best money I ever spent! (I am not pg yet, so cant tell you if it *worked*, but the support, and quick & clear answers are amazing)

Just so you are aware though, atomic and her family have a sickness bug at the minute so she may not be as quick with replies etc as she usually is....
but when all is well I always get an answer to any questions on my coaching forum (this comes with the personalised plan for 6mths) within 24hrs....hopefully atomic and her little ones will be back to full health soon

I'd definitely recommend the personalised plan, well worth the $
good luck

[krickyk26]

Thanks! I went ahead a bought one. I had been reading through her responses and caught that in her signature but thank you so much for the heads up!

All of us just passed around the stomach flu, one a time, so it's been 10 days of sickness here. Totally understand!

We are still going to make an attempt this month at least using abstain until +opk and I am generally in what is it, maternal decline anyway. Doubt it will happen the first month but don't want to wait!

[coralsky]

Oh good, you might even get a BFP in a couple of wks, but if not I'm sure your plan will help with attempt next month
Good luck with your sway x

[atomic sagebrush]

Hi Kricky, just wanted to let you know I have your questionnaire and will get right to work on your plan!!!