Atomic Please Help!

[lovemy2blessings]

I'm on CD 13 and still having negative opk's with partial ferning on my microscope for the past 4 days. Cervix still feels medium somewhat hard w/ no CM. I feel like I can't continue having DH abstain (today marks day 10) because he already told me he is afraid that he "might" end up having a nocturnal emission. What should I do? Should I go ahead and DTD with Rephresh and then have him FR everyday until I get a positive OPK or Have him release now not using that batch and have him release twice a day until positive OPK? Last cycle I ovulated on CD27 (coming off bcp)..So I'm not sure when I will O this cycle...
TIA

[atomic sagebrush]

Have an attempt, since pregnancy is unlikely I would not have him do the release/dump process. He does not need to switch to FR (unless he wants to.) I would resume abstain and then if another 6-7 days passes and ovulation is nigh, you can do a straight up attempt, if you O before that, then you can do the hurry up FR (release once, dump it, DTD again using second batch.)

[lovemy2blessings]

Thanks Atomic, so to clarify... if we do dtd now he abstains until I get a positive opk right, but if I O before the next 6-7 days I have dh release twice that day of the positive OPK and use the second batch right?

[lovemy2blessings]

Also when is the best time to test with OPK's? My test don't say it

[lovemy2blessings]

Bump

[Kittybear]

I usually test with FMU but i have also tested at night before bed as well (just make sure there is at least 4 hours between pees for the hormones to build up in your wee!) x

[lovemy2blessings]

Oh ok thanks

[atomic sagebrush]

Thanks Atomic, so to clarify... if we do dtd now he abstains until I get a positive opk right, but if I O before the next 6-7 days I have dh release twice that day of the positive OPK and use the second batch right?

yes

[atomic sagebrush]

Also when is the best time to test with OPK's? My test don't say it

Most OPK are best taken after lunch. But some are designed to be used with FMU. I would test after lunch and then again after dinner if you think you're getting close

[lovemy2blessings]

Awesome, once again thanks a bunch!!