Not getting pregnant-please help!

[atomic sagebrush]

YOu can take aspirin with Clomid but not with thyroid stuff. The Zoloft can be a blood thinner

I do think that one attempt is the best sway, but if you're ready to get pg NOW then you should always do more than one attempt. Best sway = one attempt, better odds of conception 3-5 attempts in fertile window or SMEP.

[lovemysonbut]

Thanks. A|t this point, I think I just need to get pg. I can't keep this up and the age gap is widening every month. It's too bad that I can't take aspirin.....is there anything else I can do other than clomid and diet? What's the best swaying pattern with more than one attempt? |Does it even matter? I've read so much the timing and bd patterns matter, and I've also read the opposite!

[rainbowflower]

Thanks. A|t this point, I think I just need to get pg. I can't keep this up and the age gap is widening every month. It's too bad that I can't take aspirin.....is there anything else I can do other than clomid and diet? What's the best swaying pattern with more than one attempt? |Does it even matter? I've read so much the timing and bd patterns matter, and I've also read the opposite!

if you were to do, say, 2 attempts... I'd personally do CFR on two days in a row, or with a 1-day gap in between (if you know when you will OV) - so on each attempt day I'd release and discard then DTD within 6 hours. OR if you are doing FR you could just BD and FR on alternate days

The other option is to take something that will improve uterine lining and make implantation easier, such as omega 3 or to help more swimmers get there by using a lube for your attempt. Your body condition would already be swaying pink, but you'd get more swimmers up there in order to try and fertilise the egg

[lovemysonbut]

Thanks so much! I'm just afraid that with fr or one attempt I won't get pregnant and after 9 months and all my mom friends having their second babies, I just want to get pregnant! I got pg from one attempt with #2 (the missed mc at 12 weeks), but haven't since. I'm afraid if I have a boy though I will experience the severe gender disappointment I had with my (AMAZING) son. I really want a daughter but don't know how many more BFN I can take.
ATomic, if I don't get pg this cycle. I'm going to get a custom plan. I owe you big time. I would have done that orginally but I thought I would get pg right away like I did the first two times!

[atomic sagebrush]

Thanks. A|t this point, I think I just need to get pg. I can't keep this up and the age gap is widening every month. It's too bad that I can't take aspirin.....is there anything else I can do other than clomid and diet? What's the best swaying pattern with more than one attempt? |Does it even matter? I've read so much the timing and bd patterns matter, and I've also read the opposite!

clomid and diet are so much better than the other stuff aspirin included, that's like saying, "isn't there anything I can do aside from antibiotics, maybe the doctor can bleed me with leeches LOL". If you've been TTC 9 months then it's no longer a matter of doing EVERYthing, it's a matter of doing the RIGHT things and waving the rest of it buh-bye because it is only standing in your way of conceiving. http://genderdreaming.com/forum/gend...s-swaying.html

The frequency patterns, I believe, barely sway (and timing totally does not sway). The one attempt DOES sway. So i would very happily see you drop the frequency in favor of one attempt + Preseed, or go with SMEP.

When you read stuff on the boards, please keep in mind that I address lots of different topics for general info purposes - it doesn't ever mean that anyone's sway will rise or fall on the basis of ANY of them.

[atomic sagebrush]

Thanks so much! I'm just afraid that with fr or one attempt I won't get pregnant and after 9 months and all my mom friends having their second babies, I just want to get pregnant! I got pg from one attempt with #2 (the missed mc at 12 weeks), but haven't since. I'm afraid if I have a boy though I will experience the severe gender disappointment I had with my (AMAZING) son. I really want a daughter but don't know how many more BFN I can take.
ATomic, if I don't get pg this cycle. I'm going to get a custom plan. I owe you big time. I would have done that orginally but I thought I would get pg right away like I did the first two times!

You were doing a lot of other stuff to sway though, right??? Until you've tried a straight up one attempt wihtout all the fiddle-faddle, you haven't really tried one attempt, KWIM?? And I'm not saying that to try and get you to do one attempt, I think that's totally at your discretion and your call to make entirely, it's just that I hate to see people blame the one attempt when it's due to a sort of mistaken impresson, if that makes any sense.

[lovemysonbut]

ooops. I screwed it up because I went to the clinic yesterday ad they predicted I may o within a day or two (they won't tell me if they see the surge). They aren't sure though (it was only CD10), and may need to give me a trigger shot on Saturday. I can't go in Friday because I'm working. I bd last night because I didn't want to miss a chance if I o before my next appointment. Any idea what my next best course of action is? I wanted to try one attempt, but messed up. One more attempt at trigger (if they gie me one?) Thanks!

[lovemysonbut]

P.S. If I decide to do lots of attempt to get pg on clomid, how can I lower my ph? Lots of crystal light? Is there anything else I can use? I've never been able to test my ph-the strips never change colour....
I HAVE gotten pg with one attempt before. My second pg was a 1 shot wonder 8 days before o, it was an accident.....maybe I'll try that next month if I can figure out when I o on clomid

[lovemysonbut]

grr.....after months of swaying, I discover I have (mild ) hypothyroid. My family doctor didn't discover it because it is considered normal, but not for repoductive purposes according to the fertility clinic. I just read this sways boy BIG TIME. I have been on meds for 8 days, but this probably hasn't made a difference yet. Will the veg diet, no breakfast and clomid counteract that or am I most likely going to end up with a boy after all this?

[atomic sagebrush]

Yes you need to have another attempt here. At trigger is perfect.

You DON'T do anything to lower your pH. Lowering pH kills sperm and inhibits pregnancy. Please read this http://genderdreaming.com/forum/gend...ph-pickle.html Don't worry about testing pH, most of us have 2,3,4 pH opposites to show for our trouble.

I hope you're kidding about attempting 8 days before ovulation.