Our dream has ended

[retrolove1]

I'm so very sorry, life does seem to unfair.

I've never had to experience what you went through so can only empathise. I've just found out this is DS3 for us so I will never have my daughter. The first couple of days I struggled, I wasn't showing my bump the usual attention and just cried a lot. Now only 3 days on I am fine, yes I still have GD but I love this little man already.

I got mainly girl nub guesses so shows nub isn't always right. X

[monkeysnuffer]

Well, they didn't say 100% boy. Things can still change. Please don't feel you don't DESERVE a girl. YOu deserve the very best in life. I hope you feel better soon. ((HUGS))

[atomic sagebrush]

I am so sorry Northern.

[myrainbowgirl]

I am so sorry, Northern. I have never had a girl and lost her, so I cannot relate to that sort of pain. However, I am pregnant with DS4, and I can completely understand your feelings of not wanting the baby. I would have never dreamed I would feel that way, but I did. And like Thorz, I would never abort, however, I really just wished it had never happened. I also agree with her...I truly believe God has a plan for each of us, and that it is best. But believe me, I was very mad at Him at first! But I can tell you that I now feel much better. (I found out a month ago.) I know it will continue to be a process, as I can't say I'm very excited about this baby yet. I think I will get there, though, and am letting myself take my time. Give yourself time. It will get better, I promise. Once he is here, you won't be able to imagine life without him. Huge hugs!

[Dreamofpink]

Northern, I've followed your story from the time when we were on the ttc boards together. I'm so so sorry for the way things have turned out for you, it's a heartbreaking turn of events. I can't even begin to imagine the pain you must feel, it's taken me a while to get used to the idea of ds3 but I know the love will be overwhelming when we get to meet him. Your instinct has been so strong from the beginning about the baby being a boy. I know it's not what you want & need but I just pray that you'll have an uneventful pregnancy this time & have a gorgeous new son to cuddle in the new year

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[SoulSister]

Thinking of you Northern xxx

[iwonder]

Big hugs to you, Northern. Your baby is adorable, BTW. I am so glad you can come here for support.

[hotdogz&boyz]

I am so sorry. I can't imagine the hurt and anger and rawness that you feel right now. I followed your story from afar and felt so sad for your experience. I imagine that, for the moment, this news has added insult to injury. I hope you can find peace with it and enjoy your new little guy (if he does, in fact, end up being a boy).

[never-say-never]

I`m so sorry you didn`t get the news you wanted.

[Happylane]

Hi Northern,
I just read a response you wrote to someone who was upset after her 12 week NT scan. You wrote that it was still so early! 12 wks will give you about 50/50%. So I'm saying the same thing to you. It's still early. All hope is not lost. Try to hang onto that instead of falling into the place that you're going. You've been dealt some tough cards with your little girl and I'm so incredibly sorry for that. You might have another little girl in there. You just can't really tell yet no matter how great the machine or tech. I do hope you hear what you want but if you don't I hope you find comfort in the fact that you have a healthy beautiful baby. Praying you find peace.