Gender Disappointment at 13 Weeks - Am I crazy?

[3littleladies]

GD really stinks & I wish it never existed, but in saying that it is real and so many of us go through it, but like you said we just keep it quiet.

You're probably worrying for nothing, because you probably do have a little wee lady in there.

[tiffanyclyne]

GD really stinks & I wish it never existed, but in saying that it is real and so many of us go through it, but like you said we just keep it quiet.

You're probably worrying for nothing, because you probably do have a little wee lady in there.

My husband is in the same boat as you. He agrees that there is probably a girl in there. I don't know - I guess I feel like it will never happen because I want it so badly so it's hard to believe.

And you are right. GD does exist. I wish more women spoke up about it so it wasn't so taboo. I had to explain it to my mom in a way she could understand. I told her to imagine that she fell in love with a house, pictured her life there with her family, she did everything she could to get the house, put in an offer, and it was denied. HOWEVER, she got her second favorite house. She's still SO HAPPY she has the house, but now she has to deal with the disappoint and let go of the idea of having the house she really wanted the most. I don't understand why it's so hard to understand or why people equate being disappointed with not being happy or thankful for the pregnancy. They are two different things. Human beings are so incredibly multifaceted that we can feel more than one thing at a time.

[The Anchor]

12 weeks is too early for a potty shot. Even a nub shot is JUST A GUESS, don't give up hope, this may be your little girl. And everyone "gets it" here...these forums were built on the concept! Good luck to you

[Waiting4Daisy]

Far too early to judge by potty shot. Lots of ladies here received an early boy guess from a potty shot so early and ended up having a girl. I wouldn't put any stock in a guess from someone who thinks a potty shot do early could be accurate.

[Funkyfry]

Tiffany it is very early! I hope you have your baby girl cooking in there x

[monkeysnuffer]

Did you ever find out? Hope you got your girl