I want to cry!!

[happymama]

Hi ladies! Not sure if I have a question to ask but this was the only place where I could vent!

I've been planning to ttc tonight, actually for couple of days this week but because Dh wasn't feeling well we left it for tonight. And tonight he said I think we should wait for next month because I was sick and it's not the best time!! He was sick with gastro for a week but today he was fine. I was sick too, but completely fine now. I felt so disappointed because I was really waiting for this day and was very excited and for some reason nit sure why I felt like November was our month!! I know it sounds funny but I feel like dropping everything. Also I kinda feel not coping well on this diet, specially skipping bfast. I thought we should start ttc sooner rather than later but it looks like I have to keep going but feel pretty upset... Sorry for this novel but have any of you been in the same situation where your dh doesn't support you and have nothing against the sway but also doing nothing to help, not even wearing tight boxers? How did you manage not to get upset and was your sway successful at the end? Thanks everyone for reading!

[Butterfly Spirit]

I'm so sorry to hear all that! I didn't really have a willing DH either. He did take some calcium, magnesium and cranberry and sometimes hot baths. All I can advise you on sweety is seduce him! I'd tickle my hubby and then grab his package, and he really liked that game lol it worked every time and I did this the week I conceived my sweet girl! Also.. dress sexy, drive him wild! I wish you the best of luck!

[atomic sagebrush]

Yes, my husband wouldn't help at all with either of my sways. I didn't get upset because I knew that the only way I would get a baby at all is by keeping my cool and not mentioning it at all whatsoever. I didn't talk about babies or swaying (except as my job LOL) or when I was fertile or anything. My first sway was an opposite but that was because I was doing the IG supps and not because of anything my husband did or didn't do. My second sway was a success and I got my daughter.

[happymama]

Thank you both for sharing your experience!! I'm going to implement your strategies lol!!

Hope I'll be successful!