JUNE/JULY/AUGUST 2014 DUE DATE CLUB

[from2to3]

GT77 - I don't believe the heart rate theory either. Both of my boys' were in the 150-160 range, should have definitely been girls lol! Having said that, I can't wait for my first appointment to finally hear this one's heartbeat <3

I don't go by the Chinese Chart either, and in fact waited until I was good and pregnant to even look at it. Just something to pass the time with this pregnancy...it does say girl though....

PrayforPrincess - I hear ya girl! Let's just pray we get our girls! One thing we have to remember though, is that God has a great plan for our lives and he can see things we can't. He wants what's best for us. However, knowing that and accepting that are two different things! The whole past year or two I have thrown around in my head if we were done having kids, if we were meant to have three kids and that's why our second boy was born - if he was a girl maybe we would have stopped too soon? On and on and on!

Back when we 'thought' we were done having kids I would randomly have a dream I had another baby - and it was always a boy. Now, pregnant, a few nights ago I had a dream I had a boy. The past few nights it has been crazy dreams and usually about trying to find out. Complete restless sleep!

Here's to good reports for all of us in 2014!!!!! And congrats to those that got their good reports....and most of all to healthy babies!!!

[momof3boyz11]

If the Chinese gender chart was right I would have 2 girls and 1 boy not 3 boys
FX 2014 brings everyone their dream gender and healthy babies!

[aidansmum]

Aidansmum, was your 6th sense right with all your kids?

Two out of 3! Bad odds.

[aidansmum]

So far, this is what I have

intuition - boy
Chinese - boy
heartbeat - 177, girl
ramzi - not sure, but I think girl.
DH- boy
Early BFP - Girl
Biorhythms - girl
bad nausea (more than previous pregnancies) - girl

I have to do a proper Tarot reading but keep avoiding it, don't want to be disappointed.

[aidansmum]

GT, sorry to pry but why did you have to do an amnio after all the other tests you had done before? Didn't you have CVS?

[aidansmum]

I heard that the heart theory tends to be more accurate at the beginning of the pregnancy, up to 10 weeks or so, then it slows down, and also the baby could be active (higher hr) or relaxed/sleeping (lower hr).

[menlc611]

Thanks for the warm welcome!
from2to3- I am scared too. This is most likely our last baby because I have had a pretty rough road with surgeries and my c-sections that my ob is not psyched about me having #4 but is ok with it. Chances are she'll cut me off after this one though. My head keeps telling me not to kid myself and without swaying, what are the chances of a girl after 3 boys! Of course its a boy. But my heart keep telling me that if there is any higher power out there that life wouldn't be so cruel not to give me a girl after all I've been through to have this baby. Its not like I don't want to have a boy, its the thought of my dream for a daughter never coming true that tortures me. I just don't want to live always desperately wanting something I'll never have, and always wondering what she would have looked like and what kind of relationship we could have had etc. I just can't even think about it cause it only upsets me.
I almost just don't want to know, I'm too scared that hearing "boy" will throw me off into having to face my fear of never having a dd. In the past with my boys, of course I was upset, but I always knew that there would be one more, I would have another chance. But this time is so final - I don't have another chance after this one and I'd finally have to accept never having a dd and I'm not sure how to do that yet. I think its something I would struggle with for a very long time.
I too had a dream the other night. A fortune teller told me I was having a boy and that I would have another baby and that would be a boy too. All boys she said. I was like "Nooooo!" I hope its not a sign.

Not sure I believe in chinese calendar, lets face it -- its 50/50. Wish I could think it was true cause it says girl for me, but I'm not buying stock in it.

I could have written this!!!! I had GD with my last son but got over it easily because I knew we would have another one. We have prayed and prayed and prayed some more for this baby. I truly believe if it's a boy, I just wasn't meant to have a girl. However, that doesn't mean I'll be any less upset I adore my boys, but knowing I will NEVER have a girl will be hard to deal with! Especially if my SIL has a girl (they have twin boys and plan to have 2 more kids).. My MIL wants a granddaughter so desperately, and if my SIL has a girl, I will forever be the outcast and feel my boys will be treated differently. (My MIL had 3 boys and I believe still has GD to this day...) anyway, I can't wait to find out. Not knowing is driving me crazy. I just want to know and move on with my life (sounds horrible, right?!) I just know at this point it's done and there's nothing I can do about it.. So let's just get on with it lol fx we both get our girls!!!

[gafan]

Happy New Year everyone! I hope that 2014 is healthy and happy for us all.

[prayforprincess]

menlc- you make a good point about finding out. I'm scared because I'm avoiding dealing with the heartache, but maybe its good to find out and end this limbo and finally beginning dealing with the cards I've been dealt.

snipnsnails- I hope I am you. You swayed though, do you believe that is a big part of why you are having your girl?? I was not able to do my sway before finding out I was pg -- so I don't hold out much hope for myself.

[snipsnsnails]

snipnsnails- I hope I am you. You swayed though, do you believe that is a big part of why you are having your girl?? I was not able to do my sway before finding out I was pg -- so I don't hold out much hope for myself.[/QUOTE]

I wouldn't lose hope! You still have a very good chance..
For myself, YES I give credit to Atomic creating a personalized sway plan for me and I do believe that is the reason why it worked. After reading on here prior to trying, I didn't realize how much of a boy diet I had. I also ate super healthy, vitamins, worked out, etc. So I did make some drastic changes for 2-3months with diet, lifestyle and my dh did as well. I also credit olive leaf helping him out, but it was the combination of everything.
My fingers are crossed tightly for you!! When can you find out?