Husband involvement

[Mulberry Smurf]

So I have passed the task of swaying over to my husband. Am I mad?! Has anyone else done this and were they successful?? Thanks in advance!! Xx

[Rosie85]

What do you mean? Like completely??

[Mulberry Smurf]

He's going to have a little look in and let me know what's what. I've already done quite a bit of research but yes the next stage is up to him! Xx

[Dreamofpink]

I think it sounds fab! You lucky lady! If nothing else, it takes the Martha element out of your sway very nicely. Perhaps have atomic draw you up a plan and then he can be in charge of it for you.

[Mulberry Smurf]

That's what we will do dreamofpink thanks good luck with your next sway I have a good feeling for you xx

[Dreamofpink]

That's what we will do dreamofpink thanks good luck with your next sway I have a good feeling for you xx

Aww, thanks! Best of luck to you too

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[Rosie85]

oh I see! i thought you were possibly referring to letting him be the only one to do the swaying tactics. I love the idea of the DH taking over and creating a plan! Wish mine would..

[Mulberry Smurf]

Thanks dream
Rosie is he involved at all in the swaying? I've seen lots of plans say their husbands weren't willing (or aware of plans) to sway, some are successful and others not so I dunno how helpful it'll be! Xx

[aidansmum]

Good on you! My DH's only part in all of it was 'ok, when do we do it?' lol Good luck!

[JP2007]

I think it is awesome that your DH is so supportive and is going to help plan your sway! I would imagine that would make it much less stressful for you.

My DH is actually against swaying, he feels like he is messing with fate and is afraid it would increase the risk of birth defects. He says he just wants a healthy baby, which I agree with, but if I can tip the odds in my favor a little I would like to try. He has always said that his nerves can't handle a girl and he would be happy with all boys, but recently he did mention that a daughter would be nice.

At one point I thought he might be willing to take some supplements but now I know that he won't. He could benefit from some of them anyways but I would not feel right giving them to him and not giving him full disclosure on my intentions.

I am doing diet and exercise still so if we do end up with another boy, then at least I know that I tried and we will love him to pieces anyway