Of course you have 3 girls!!!

[carmella_marie]

If ds2 had been a girl I might have stopped at that , or tried for one more girl. Now I see my 2 boys playing together and think maybe just One daughter isn't enough, I'd love to have 2 girls to even out the score!!!

[Alyssasmom789]

I am a doll machine the classic LE diet! Never realized it though.

DD1 we only dtd once and it was the day my period finished. I was so skinny low bmi, diet coke like crazy, lots of cardio, no breakfast ever, starving always.

DD2 same as DD1 their a year apart and always always mistaken for twins lol

DD3 I swayed hardcore for 3-4 months but I think I messed up on not lifting weights because I'd always been skinny my body is just thin no muscle, also worked overnight and had no sleep, not active

[atomic sagebrush]

I do the same thing. Most people give me a strange looks when I start talking about gender swaying though, like it's dark magic or something. I tried explaining about the diet to a friend (has two girls and really wants a boy) who totally brushed me off claiming that the male sperm controls the gender and there's nothing a female can do. I would say 90% of the people I know believe this. So frustrating.


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One thing I have learned in my old age is that there are a ton of people who think you are stupid for knowing MORE than them, not less. And they won't listen because they're immediately and irrevocably convinced that you're ignorant, superstitious, etc.

http://genderdreaming.com/forum/sway...-part-1-a.html

[atomic sagebrush]

Yes I don't need to hear "you get what you get and you don't throw a fit" by people who already have what I want LOL. These are the same people who would raise H-ll if the color of granite countertop they wanted was temporarily out of stock.

People without any kids (who don't want any) are actually WORSE than the PP ones IMO. The ones who go around muttering "breeders" under their breath.

I agree with Carmella though, I have a whole new perspective on people in situations where I previously would have been less understanding. I can now understand how different things can look from the outside and how you can have a very pure feeling in your heart that appears bad to others, if that makes any sense.

[atomic sagebrush]

Funny you should mention that but I keep thinking when I see people I wonder which element of their lifestyle had swayed that gender. My friend whose little girl is the same age as my son had had a recent loss and she used to smoke so I think that swayed girl for her xx

and in many cases, the ones that don't have the "right" lifestyle have the Mary-Martha issue coming into play. I knew a gal who was petite to the point of frailness but OMG her personality was a total dragon lady! 4 boys.

[carmella_marie]

I once heard someone say "everyone's fighting a battle you know nothing about" and to therefore treat everyone with as much grace as possible. I try to do that now, knowing how hard my own GD is.

[Adia]

and in many cases, the ones that don't have the "right" lifestyle have the Mary-Martha issue coming into play. I knew a gal who was petite to the point of frailness but OMG her personality was a total dragon lady! 4 boys.

I have definitely seen this! Can think of many examples!